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My girlfriend dumped me by text message and I'm depressed?

So my girlfriend and I went out with some of our friends to a nightclub cause that's what we usually do on Saturdays. Well the night started off well, I really didn't see anything wrong. She didn't want to dance just one on one but that's how she is so I didn't see anything abnormal. Then she started disappearing for lengths of time, always coming back but I didn't really think anything of it. She just didn't give me much attention throughout the night whatsoever. So then the downstairs punk stuff finished and we went upstairs, and our other friends went home and she wanted to stay so I stayed with her. Noticed she was grinding up against a few other guys, but I thought she was still drunk so I didn't think anything of it. She told me that I looked like I just wanted to go home, I was kinda slowing down cause the music was that kind of electro dance and it wasn't my thing. I had to get my backpack from cloaking cause they closed, and so I left the dance floor to find somewhere to put it and I grabbed some water. Then I feel a vibration in my pocket, open my phone and it simply read "I can't do this anymore I'm sorry. Your too young for me" (I'm 18 she's 22) and without saying a word or even looking I just left the place, found a taxi and went home, didn't say a word but inside I was screaming. It was just so out of the blue, didn't even see it coming. I genuinely had feelings for her and now I feel used. We were dating for two weeks, and I was starting to fall for her and then all of a sudden this. Now it's the day after and I have no motivation to do anything, I've been laying in bed all day. How can I get over her? It was pretty much attraction from the moment I saw her, and it just kills me inside because I feel like she used me and just got bored

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  • Rodica
    Lv 7
    8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Do not cry that it's over, enjoy it that happened!

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Exactly why i don't pay too much attention to girls that want attention at the end of the day they just want excitement and will do anything in there power to do so otherwise they move on don't worry about it you will soon feel a little anger deep inside and will trust less and less people that's typically not a bad thing because you are protecting your feelings so i understand your pain. Find a hobby listen to music that will get your mind off her so you can become a stronger person and later think man **** HER xD just a suggestion you will find better ones im sure :o

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Break ups are hard. She's a coward for not telling you to your face. You didn't do anything wrong, some girls are just like that. She wasn't feeling the relationship anymore so she ended it. Time for you to move on to bigger and better things. Spend some one on one time first to get over the relationship. Then get out there and have fun.

  • 4 years ago

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