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? asked in Pregnancy & ParentingNewborn & Baby · 8 years ago

My mom's premature baby died?

He was born 5 weeks early. Weighing 2lbs, when I saw him, I wanted to cry because of all the tubes they had on him. He didn't form right. His organs weren't right. His toes were together and his veins weren't right either. I just got the news. He died about 20mins ago.. he was born about 2 weeks ago.. I am crying right now. Why did this happen to us?? What did my mom do to deserve this?! I only got to see him once.. :( I don't know what to do.. help me ? I feel empty and like its my fault somehow. What do I do about my mom?

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  • 8 years ago
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    Honey, all you can do is be there for her. Its not your fault. These things happen. To some of us and its not fair. You have to look at it like this though. God probably just wanted him home early so that he wouldn't suffer later. All things happen for a reason and you have to let God have the control. I will pray for your mother and you in this time of need. I'm so sorry for your loss.

  • I'm sorry for your family's loss. Sometimes terrible things happen and there is no answer as to why. You just need to pull together and keep moving forward. Grieving is important and can take a very long time but in the end what's done is done and there is no changing it. Best wishes.

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