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army question woman from husbands basic training is harassing him?

Ok so my husband left for basic training last year before thanksgiving so 2012.

This girl went to basic training and ait with my husband

me and my husband are stationed at fort carson in colorado springs and my husband says she's stationed in georgia. idk where though.

so anyways this female keeps texting and calling my husbands phone

she calls him all throughout work hours and also when he's home here with me

we've both asked her to stop multiple times

is there anything i can do to make her stop?

i've threatened to tell her 1st sergeant but she's said that her sergeants really cool with her and she wont get in trouble anyways

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  • Bob P
    Lv 6
    8 years ago
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    Call blocking, new phone #, don't answer, ...

    Only way this can continue is with hubby's cooperation.

  • 8 years ago

    Speak with her Company or Battalion Commander - that will stop all harassment.

    EDIT: I am with Jeeper on this one ... your husband has had some sort of improper relationship with this female troop.

    Threatening to call her 1SG at this point is stupid - never threaten, just act. However, when her chain of command asks her what is going on, and she starts going on about whatever she and your hubby did together back in the day, then you need to be prepared for this all blow up in his face.

  • 8 years ago

    Yes, you phone up your husbands cell phone company and have her number blocked. If that doesn't work, you can take it up with the police as it is harassment.

    Source(s): Experience
  • ?
    Lv 6
    8 years ago

    Your husband does not know what proper boundaries are. he should have blocked her or changed his dam # a long time ago!!!

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  • 8 years ago

    your husband probably should not have slept with her, during AIT

    and if you don't believe he did,

    I have a bridge to sell you

    i'd bet dollars to donuts, that during AIT, your husband shacked up with her

    probably told her, he wanted a divorce from you and wanted to marry her

    then after AIT, got cold feet about the divorce and thought that would be the end of it, since they were at different post

    note: only way she has his work number and cell number, is because he gave them to her

  • ?
    Lv 6
    8 years ago

    just arrange a meet and greet with this female

    the three of u - her, your husband, and yourself - can surely find a way to settle this *wink wink*

    good luck, lady

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