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Should I ditch my friend ?

I've been friends with this girl since we were 13( 20 yr olds now) and until last year we were good friends,

Last year she got a full time job and a bf n now it's like I don't exist to her, I've tried and tried and tried to rebuild our friendship n I've talked to her about this n she agrees but she just doesn't put in any effort n i understand that she's busy n stuff but why should I be the one made to feel like **** when I'm trying?

Should I bother? Or just not message her any more

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  • 8 years ago

    Shes extremly busy at the minuite and she is probably finding it hard to keep up with everything.If you are a good friend and dont doubt your friendship you will stick around until she gets everything sorted and believe me she will alwats remember that.You two have made it this far together,dont give up or throw it away now! :)

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    She has to less time for herself now that she is working and have boyfriend. Life changes honey you will get there soon. Its hard but let her now how you feel about your friendship before you think the worse. She needs to know you're still her friend. you probably need to make new friends to pass your time.

  • 8 years ago

    maybe try like for one more week. i know how it feels, and it's ****. but you can't always do everything to keep in touch. if she really wants to stay friends, then make her step forward as well and message you.

  • 8 years ago

    Do not message her. Go out and get a life of your own.

  • 8 years ago

    Sometimes friends just grow apart. No relationship can be kept alive if only one person is trying. When he breaks her heart, she will be back.....

  • 8 years ago

    Move on... Your both grown now and have your own lives

  • ?
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    yes

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