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Please help idk what to do :(?

I'm sooo sad right now, the last time I seen or talked to my ex ( we might as well call him that) was sept 2. He has not answered my calls or or text messages, he's mad for some unknown reason. He's done this to me before, ignored me for a month when he was mad. He also does this to his family. I don't know why he's mad, I did nothing to him. I'm convinced he's seeing someone else which makes me sad, there has been a car in front of his house ( it could very well be a neighbors company, but I doubt it, why would it be parked in front if his house?) I knew I shouldn't be driving by, I need answers, I know I should move on, especially if he has and he's seeing someone. I'm so sad, I can't leave it alone. We were together almost 2 years. Why can't he be man enough to say, I've moved on or I don't want to work things out with you? Why is he ignoring me. I any stop crying, were both closer to 30, and I just figured at out age, he could be more mature or just tell me!! Pleas help me

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  • Dee
    Lv 7
    8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Guys are selfish and cowards too! When they stop calling, it means they moved on. They won't say anything because of their fear but just drop off your radar. When you think about it, they are too unworthy of you to grieve over. There's nothing wrong with you, but he's a wuss you're better off without. I suggest you do everything you can to forget him. You will soon enough, but in the meantime, pacify and spoil yourself rotten. Eat, drink, pedicure, manicure, buy yourself a gift, something you really like and focus on yourself, your priorities, your family, your friends, your overall well being. See my point? You, you, you, you, you! When you compare your importance to some guy's who hurt you, you see you are the ONLY priority you have, not him. He is unworthy of you and therefore can no longer occupy your mind. Devote yourself to you and he ceases to exist, his relevance gone and you just feel wonderful as you discovered a new love for self. I walked this line before myself and did just this, it works. Good luck, no more tears and get busy on you.

    Source(s): Many broken hearts, but found the perfect remedy for it!
  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    yeah its almost the same story !! they go crazy for nothing ,, stop answering for no reason ,, u saw what i've been through and now its for 3 years,, u should try ur hardest to move on and forget abt it,, and yeah dont drive by his house , stalking will make ur heart break a little bit more every time ..

  • 8 years ago

    He doesn't want to talk to you and tell you that he's moved on because he doesn't want to see you cry and he doesn't want to "talk it out". A good relationship has communication… Not talking for over a month is bad. Time to move on

  • 8 years ago

    stop all communication

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