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Are these normal feelings after a break up?

Is it normal to think that you and you're ex will work things out and get back together. I'm sad about my recent break up but deep down inside I feel like this isn't it, I'm trying to not think that way for fear of getting hurt and it not happening.

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  • 8 years ago
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    It is normal to have hope of a reconciliation after a break up, but don't expect it. Give him his space. He may realize that he misses you, and wants to work things out, but if that's the case, you have to let him come to that realization on his own, he can't be forced into it. You're going to be sad, hurt, angry, etc.... And are going to experience many emotions and feelings. Be patient, and if he doesn't come back around, he's obviously not the one for you.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    The best thing to do is get over it. Remind yourself of the reason you broke up and even make a list. Remind yourself it wouldn't have worked out anyway. Now you have the chance of meeting someone who will make you even happier.

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