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Why is she acting like this?

I went out with this girl on a blind date, to a haunted house. Before she even seemed scared or we walked in she casually grabbed my hand. We held hands all night in front of her friends and she didnt care- in fact she instigated it. The rest of the night when we would sit down she would lean in to me. Obvious that she is at least somewhat interested.

Then we texted a little bit the next day, when i asked her to come over she never responded. So i let it go and texted her on monday 2 or 3 days later just asking how she was. no response. Then I called her the next day to ask her out since my friend (also a girl) said that she prob didnt answer because she wanted me to call. Anyways no answer. I get hom about 10 mins later and she immediately messages me on facebook saying something like "Hey idk if you have tried to contact me at all or anything but my phone is totally broken and I cant afford a new one right now." Then we talk about how fun the date was and when we will go out again. Her brother is in town so I tell her to just let me know. The next day I get on facebook and she had deleted her facebook account (i confirmed with a friends facebook- so wasnt just blocking me)

Anyways my question is if she is interested and facebook was the only way she had to communicate with people why did she delete it and why was she so forward on the date but now not so much?

Im 24 she is 19

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  • 8 years ago
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    Maybe her brother found out and her brother deleted everything?

    Could be the only possibility there.

    And what do you do?

    Well if you're like me, the "hero type". You would just GO straight to her doorstep, and just.........ask for her.

    And won't leave until u get it from her that she isn't into you.

    I would bring a few friends tho. Those that can pack a punch of course.

    Lest her dad or her brother comes out or some sh@t Or if the whole neighbourhood stands up against you.

    Sounds like a big deal? Well yes of course. I'm dealing with the love of my life, does it look like I don't give a damn? of course I do give a damn. I might even give 2.

    SO yea, I would go there and ask for her hand. If her dad came out. I'd say, " Hi sir. I came to seek your daughter's hand. " I would say that, if of course they deny me to see her or have a word with her.

    I basically won't leave until I see her.

    Thats me. I'm a drastic, awesome, spontaneous, extreme guy. I make things happen. I don't wait for EVER to EVER happen.

    Heres the key to forever. I don't wait for "ever". Cause its never EVER gonna be there till I put my hands on it.

    I'll ASSUME I don't know anything else and just find out. I don't wanna ASSUME N never be able to find out. U get me?

    I dnt wanna think she don't like me. I'm ruling that possibility out.

    Cause I don't like that. Why would I include that in my possibility? U can call me stupid.

    Then I am. But after all I've done, I might get the girl.

    Those guys who stand there and watch may very well, NEVER do.

    So what about it?

    Are u gonna be the ones standing there watching? Or the 1 doing.

    In the club you'll see guys who WATCH people take a girls hand and dance and flirt and kiss and make out and walk outside, book a hotel, have s3x.

    Tables meeting tables saying hi and making friends.

    R u gonna be the 1 keep looking and have nothing special happening that night or are u gonna BE THE ONE those guys are watching, like, "WOW, this crazy guy............he talks to ever girl on every table and how the hell he knows everyone?? NO FCK!~! THis guy is COOL!~!"

    Even if u fail to get this girl bro, u'll get 10 more right away. You'll be known man. This GUY, u wouldn't believe it. He's got the guts man. He goes at the girl in front of her house like no fck.

    10 other girls wll like u cause you're some real deal. You don't just talk. U walk the talk.

    IF girls put u off, just say your attitude. Oh yeah? Bet u dnt even have the guts to come here and talk.

    Just say, cuz I'm the real deal.

    N I mean business when I say something. Do I look like stupid?

  • 8 years ago

    Holding hands isn't "forward" and leaning in isn't indicative of much.

    She's a teenager, she's not interested, move on.

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