Should I leave my boyfriend..?

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My boyfriend is so terrible at sex, and it's beginning to effect our relationship. He orgasms within 2 minutes of penetration, before i can even have my orgasm.

I know he can't help this, but, why should I have to put up with having to fake my orgasms while he's getting all the pleasure?! He's not selfish, and i understand he tries his best to please me, but, it's getting out of control now!

I don't only care about sex, but, again, it's not fair to me to have to suffer during something that is supposed to be enjoyable for BOTH people!

I don't want to sound like a b*tch, but, it's completely unfair for me to have to fake my pleasure while he has the time of his life!

Do you think i should break up with him and find someone else who knows how to please me?? If not, how can I tell him that he's not good in bed? please help! thank you

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

if you love him then just suggest- without offending him, that you don't get time to orgasm,
 he would have to know for sure that 2 minutes is quick, so try foreplay and reach orgasm that way then have sex. or after sex get him to help you feel satisfied. I have same problem.
my guy can sometimes go 1 minute, 5 minutes, 10 minutes. you never no...
but if I really want an orgasm (not everytime) I tell him hey dude back it up a bit and give me a turn, he works his fingers like magic and bang, both of us win.
leave him only if you have other problems, or don't love him. 
people sometimes use excuses to leave a relationship when its not really even a problem. you just want out, and sexual reasoning isn't even touching the underlying issues.
goodluck.

Allison · Answer

Yes

Anonymous · Answer

You should be able to find your partner incredibly sexy and look forward to an intense and amazing sexual experience. I don't care what people say, it would be ignorant to say that sex doesn't matter in a mature relationship.

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