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Signed Joint and Several Lease with a sociopathic, harassing roommate. I moved out and want to avoid courtHelp?

2 months into my joint and several lease I had a confrontation that was bordering on violence with my sociopathic roommate. He blew up after I told him no to throw away my food without asking first he was yelling at me calling me names and punching his fist. He is 6'3 close to 300lb with a bad temper and I'm about half his size so it's a no win situation for me. He also used the a racial slur towards the Hispanic neighbors upstairs by calling them N right to their face. So his anger streak is no secret to anyone. I texted him that I would like to find a replacement roommate, he replied that he will go after me and my family if I were to move out and made other threats as well which are all on my phone. He said that he stole all my personal info from my room my SS#, addresses etc and would use it to sue me. I made the landlord aware that I want to move out and he said he was fine with it. I moved out. My ex-roommate continues to send me texts asking for money and threatening me that he knows where I live. I told him that I've called the cops and made them aware of his harassment. Now he says that he will sue me for the remainder of the rent. I told him to use my deposit of 1000 dollars to pay the next 1.5 months of rent and find another roommate. He continues to insist that he wants me to pay and doesn't want another roommate. The lease is joint and several but I can't live in the apartment with a sociopath. The landlord will evict all if the rent is not paid. If my ex-roommate choses to pay rent by himself and go after me in court can I win? P.S. this guy is a real sociopath so he'd rather sue me than get another roommate. My rent share was $750 per month.

Update:

My best case scenario is for him not to pay rent and the landlord will re-rent the place and go after both of us for money he lost while the place was empty. Can I counter sue that sociopath?

Update 2:

We've lived together for about 1.5 years without a lease, when the new owner bought the apartment he made us sign a lease. His behavior got worse when he started working from home and I lost my job. We had way to much time together. When I worked I stayed out of the house most of the time.

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  • 8 years ago
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    why would anyone call an HIspanic a ***...?

    easy way out........find a replacement tenant --called a subleasee or a sandwich tenant

    and you stay on the lease

    can guide further

  • R P
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    8 years ago

    You do not want an eviction on your public record. That will follow you forever and hinder you for many years in your ability to rent from a decent landlord.

    You are responsible for the rent as as your roommate since you signed the lease. He is under no legal obligation to find another roommate and can sue you for your half of the rent.

    Why does the roommate have access to your $1000 deposit? It seems to me that you should have given that money to your landlord & that it will be refunded when the lease is finished and the roommate has either vacated or signed a new lease in just his name.

    Source(s): FL landlord
  • 8 years ago

    You are up a legal creek without a paddle. Unless the land lord severed the lease, and you and I both know he did no such thing, you are still liable for the rent for the full term of the lease. He cannot use your damage deposit to cover your part of the rent. Either get a restraining order on the guy or get a lawyer to sort this out with the landlord. You are screwed either way.

  • 8 years ago

    If he sues you in court he will win. The fact that you signed the lease makes you liable for rent whether you live there or not. Sorry!

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  • 8 years ago

    You can counter-sue him for all the above reasons. You would win. Can you secure a letter

    from your former landlord stating his approval of your move?

    Did you not detect any of his behaviour before rooming with him?

    Source(s): Knowledge.
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