i have a guy close friend. i really like him a lot. but i am not sure what actually is going on in his mind.?

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i have been really close friends with him. he sometimes say that he likes me but i'm not sure.. he is into a relationship at present but doesn't feel anything for that girl. he says he cannot be with me because it would affect our friendship. we talk regularly, we hang out together! i really wanna know what he actually feels. sometimes he's like i like you too and sometimes we cant be together, we are just good friends and stuff. what should i do? please help me out.

Update:

he thinks friendship will be affected because of his past records.. he has been into many relationships, some with his good friends also. and he doesnt wanna loose me. and yeah he knows about how i feel for him

Asit · Accepted Answer

BETTER OPTION WILL BE JUST TO W8 FR HIS BREAK UP..IT WILL BE SOON..AS U MNTIONED TA HE DOESN'T FEEL ANYTHING FR TAT GIRL...JST W8 TILL HIS BREAK..CNTINUE WITH UR FRNDSHIP...TRY TO BE A LITTLE CLOSER TO HIM..BT DO NT INTEREFERE IN HIS ND HIS GF'S REALATIOONSHIP...ND AFTER BREAK UP...U SHOULD TALK TO HIM ABUT URSERLF...WAT HE FEELS FOR U...U SHULD KNW ABT HIM PROPERLY ND W8 FR HIS PROPOSAL..I BET HE HIMSELF WILL PROPOSE U...U JST HAVE TO ACT NRML ND FRNDLY..SIMPLE...ENJOY UR LIFE... ;) ;) :)

debadarshi.patnaik · Answer

To like someone as a friend and to love someone as a lover are two different things. But good thing is that sometimes a good friend become a life-partner also. First thing is that you should conform that he really likes you, miss you and care about you. Second thing is that, if he does so then in which sense he is doing this. Just as a good friend or something more than that ? I always believe that love is nothing but the extreme point of friendship. I'll suggest you take your friendship to it's extreme point. best of luck.

ash · Answer

What i feel is first u should cofirm wether he loves u or not. Cz till now he has been into many relationships. I think he gets bored with the girl now and den so gets into new relationship. As now he doesnt feels for d gal he is with. Dont let him do the same thing vd u. Past things shudnt matter if d person forgets it completly. Cz past is past. Just confirm his feelings for you and later if he has genuine feelings den think to carry on vd him or else just forget him. U will get many more guys far far better dan him

Deepak · Answer

If u r not sure in your relation ship with that guys they why u try to clubbed with him as u also say that he has been in many relationship.

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i have a guy close friend. i really like him a lot. but i am not sure what actually is going on in his mind.?

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