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I'm 18 and ive never had a boyfriend .. ? whats wrong with me, why dont guys like me.? (pics included)?

okay so im 18 and ive never had a boyfriend. only kissed a few guys before.

they never ask me to hangout? in public no guy has ever tried to talk to me or anything. I'm told i have a good personality and i’m nice not stuck up or anything so i don’t understand. i am kind of shy.

whats wrong with me? should i change my hair or do my make up differently?

** in public guys do look at me just dont say anything :\

(((( any tips to look better would be greatly appreciated))))

pics of me V

http://www.flickr.com/photos/92874562@N07/

Update:

some guys call me ugly...

and this one guy said "your body doesnt compliment your face" whatever thats supposed to mean? i know its not a good thing though.

this girl said im probably the ugliest girl hes ever seen and i should stop showing my face in pictures cause it makes them even worse... and this isnt the first time someone has said something really hurtful before.

also been told i look like a guy

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  • 8 years ago

    Some people are a**holes. You just have to find the right person! I used to have high standards till I realised f*ck it, these people are so bland and that I should be looking out more for nicer personalities. From those photos I know some things... I think your smile and face looks nicer when your mouth is closed (I look like an idiot when I show teeth), your hair looks nicer without a fringe or when it's up and it also looks good short + you got a rockin' body.

    If you've got a personality that's to my liking I'd want to hang out with you. Then again I'm rather shy sometimes so I hardly make the first move. Also, even if I didn't find sometimes figure or face attractive then I wouldn't say it straight to their face because that's just being a douchebag.

    In short, you look fine but there are a couple of things that you can "fix".

    Source(s): I'm a guy =)
  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Guys are just too scared to approach you. Maybe you come off intimidating? Pretty girls are usually stereotyped as being stuck up and b*tchy. Try maybe being a little more open and outgoing. Don't listen to what people think because they are most likely jealous of you. If they take the time out of their day to try to put you down then they are obviously jealous and insecure and just want to make themselves feel better. Especially girls. If you like a guy, you should go up to him and talk to him and not wait for him to make the first move because maybe he's shy too! I'm 16 and I've never had a boyfriend and never even given a peck kiss to a guy. I've held hands with a few guys and talked to guys but we've never been official and never kissed lol. So that's that. Anyway, I think you're very pretty! Keep your head high and middle finger higher to all the haters :P

    Source(s): Help with mine please? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20131108203432AAZJfgz
  • 8 years ago

    Nah sweety, there's absolutely nothing wrong with your face so the problem shouldn't be your appearance...maybe self confidence issues as I can say you have some. And being self-conscious about something you don't like on yourself can reflect on you general aura. If you're a happy positive and delightful person guys will like you more too. Just try to love yourself, your eyes are very pretty and some girls would kill for that hair colour...also you're lean and have a nice body so why would anyone say you're ugly, I don't understand.

  • 8 years ago

    to be honest you are a beautiful girl with a hot body! that is DEF not a problem for you! :) but sometimes its all about personality. Guys like confident girls that are open...but not TOO open if you know what I mean :) and how old are you btw? Other girls will be very jealous of you!!!! Trust me! Sometimes its actually better to have not been with a lot of guys. There aren't a lot of girls like you( in a good way) so when you find that special someone you wont be the type of girl that has "been around" guys like that. Just be careful because people will be jealous of you and try to hurt you, so dont let them succeed in hurting you emotionally especially! Keep that chin up doll! :)

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  • 8 years ago

    Are you for real?

    I actually think you do look pretty. It is likely that the people who condemned you are either jealous or they are just being awkward. At your age, you shouldn't worry too much, you'll find yourself a boyfriend in due time. It is important you maintain a nice and warmth personality all the time, don't turn for the worst simply because of some criticism from negative individuals. As there will always others who will appreciate you for your bonhomie.

    I'm 20 and I'm pretty much in the same predicament as you. So I think there are others too in society who gets criticized for their appearance.

    I wish you good luck nonetheless. (:

  • 8 years ago

    Lol wow your funny girl cause your actually extremely cute. You have great features your eyes I very pretty and I love your dimples and I like the hair do it's real down to earth kinda look and your body completes you are a master piece created by god and be proud of that and I'd take you out any day and be your bf tell me what you think of me :) I'm 19

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  • Damian
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    You're not ugly - quite the opposite. Unfortunately some of us start later than others but personally I don't think you'll have too long to wait for a guy

  • 8 years ago

    When you're around guys try to smile and appear friendly. If you do that you will seem more approachable to a guy and more will approach you a lot of guys are intimidated to approach a girl who appears unhappy so smile and when a guy with confidence comes around he will say hi or maybe use a pick up line. And you are pretty.

  • 8 years ago

    Ok…ur actually really really pretty so those guys r probably saying this cause they're immature and can't get you. Stay confident and ull find the right guy one day. High school is a terrible place, college is where it's at.

  • 8 years ago

    You are very beautiful hon!.You have such pretty blue eyes!Your hair looks best pulled straight back because you have great facial features and the right forehead for that look.

    When you meet a guy, make small talk, and then ask him about himself.Some guys are scared of rejection especially by someone so pretty.So hang in there, and be very picky because you can afford to be hon.You'll find the best guys in church.The United Pentecostal churches are good, visit a few of them.

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