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Tips on getting a girl to like me and also I don't wanna be friend zoned?

Soooo, I'll paint a picture of my lovely scenario. I met this girl who's a friend of my sister's (Which isn't a problem, I already checked with my sis) and we talked a bit and we're going to hang out on the weekend and see Thor 2 at the movies.

Well I really like her, and I think she might like me to. But I'm not really sure. But that's not important anyway. Lets just assume she doesn't like me like that atm. I'm like 99% sure I did not friend zone my self, I was very careful and avoided all the classic mistakes.

I want to know how I can get her to like me during this little hang-out shindig on the weekend, while also continuing to avoid the friend zone.

Tips, tricks, do's and don'ts, anything any of you guys have in your little bag of knowledge on the topic of guys attracting girls, especially things that you've found effective from 1st hand experience (For you guys, anything that works well for you, or for you guys, anything you feel works well for guys when they're trying to get you to like them.)

Thanks a lot. :)

Update:

I definitely am not looking to get her into bed! lol. I just met the girl!

When I say "Lets just assume she doesn't like me like that atm." I mean, forget my speculations on if she already likes me or not and run on the assumption that she does in fact not like me as more than a friend at this moment.

And what I meant by liking me "Like that" is... Well, like a crush. Or some simple form of romantic attraction. That first little spark that sits with you and says "Yeah, this person is interesting and I might possibly be open to a romantic relationship at some point"... I honestly don't know how else to describe it.

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    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    What do you mean "Lets just assume she doesn't like me like that atm." what does "like that" mean ? You want to get her into bed or something ? Why not be friends and see where things lead to, I cant understand why you are in such a hurry and need to have tips, tricks or do's and don'ts to be with this girl.

    Slow down for goodness sake you are trying too hard, she is human too you know.

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