Is it me or is it her? I just want to know.?

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I'm 21 years old and I met this girl who is super nice. I like her and we have been going out for a month now. She is 20 years old and she is a Christian and she doesn't want to have sex until marriage. I respect her and her decision, but when we make-out I get a little horny. (Excuse my language but it is true). She doesn't mind me touching her but she doesn't want to touch me in the down stairs area (if you know what I mean). 
We are both virgins , but I want her to touch me. It's tough having this feeling and not doing anything about it. She told today that no matter what, her beliefs on sex or anything related to sex will have to wait until marriage. So basically I have only two choices either stay with her or break up and find someone else. I like her but I don't know what to do.

Mary · Accepted Answer

At your age the hormones are still pretty active. This is exactly why you don't find many virgins older than 25. If you can learn why she wants to wait until marriage, and understand you're not gettin' any until you marry her, then keep the relationship going. If you do not plan on marrying her, but want sex beforehand, best break up and find someone who will fulfill your desires.

I know nothing · Answer

Break up.  You need to get some experience.  You don't even know if the two of you are sexually compatible.  But at any rate, you're both way too young to even be considering marriage.  Get some experience, learn more about who you are, meet other people.  There's a lot more out there than than this one girl.   Sure you can wait until marriage and what happens then if the sex with her isn't any good?  have you considered that possibility?

Anonymous · Answer

Find someone else!! Your beliefs are not as strong as her!! As soon as you get the opportunity, you will cheat on her!!

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