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How would you approach this situation with an ex-girlfriend?

I had a girlfriend during my junior year in high school. We were together for about 3 months. Afterwards I made a few mistakes that led her to not really want to "interact" with me anymore I think mainly because I kept bringing up the past and she got tired of it. It's a year later now and it seems like our friendship has recovered somewhat, although I can still sense that awkwardness between us. And that's what I want to deal with. I really just want to be regular friends again with no awkwardness. I've been thinking that maybe I could just be blunt and honest and basically tell her that I want to be regular friends again and if we're both honest with each other then the awkwardness will disappear (either that or it'll be even more awkward). I still have feelings for her but I'm willing to control them and not let them affect what I say or do (I don't know if I should tell her this if I do talk to her). I tried getting over her during the summer break. I felt like I was close to getting over her, but once school started again all the feelings came back.

So my main question is: Is this a good idea? If not, then how should I deal with it? And any advice would be greatly appreciated.

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
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    Don't ignore her, be polite, and make sure that you are the bigger man about things. Show her that everything is fine. Even if it is awkward, don't stop being polite.

    Hope this helps,

    Cheers

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