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I'm 18 and ive never had a boyfriend .. ? whats wrong with me, why dont guys like me.? (pics included)?
okay so im 18 and ive never had a boyfriend. only kissed a few guys before.
they never ask me to hangout? in public no guy has ever tried to talk to me or anything. I'm told i have a good personality and i’m nice not stuck up or anything so i don’t understand. i am kind of shy.
whats wrong with me? should i change my hair or do my make up differently?
** in public guys do look at me just dont say anything :\
(((( any tips to look better would be greatly appreciated))))
pics of me V
some guys call me ugly...
and this one guy said "your body doesnt compliment your face" whatever thats supposed to mean? i know its not a good thing though.
this girl said im probably the ugliest girl hes ever seen and i should stop showing my face in pictures cause it makes them even worse... and this isnt the first time someone has said something really hurtful before.
this guy on here just told i look like a trannny/old woman with a teen body
11 Answers
- 8 years agoFavorite Answer
I think you look amazing in your pics, i don't know why anyone would call you ugly when you're clearly not.
- ?Lv 78 years ago
Savannah, the first thing you need to realize is that there are people on here that are just mean trolls and will always say horrible things about everyone. Just pay them no mind.
Take heed of what Lauren says in her answer, it is pretty much spot on.
As some others have mentioned, maybe change your hairstyle. Out of all of the photos the ones that I find you most attractive in are the two without the bangs and your hair pulled back. This may be influenced by my preference for tomboys however, so keep that in mind. But overall I think appearancewise you are perfect "girlfriend material", so that only really leaves something with your personality that could be a problem. Perhaps your shyness is getting in the way, I don't know.
I think the reason that guys don't talk to you is because you aren't "approachable". Unless you smile and seem friendly most people (guys) are going to pass. its just human nature. Try to get yourself out there, be friendly, and try to get beyond the shyness. I hope you find what you're looking for.
Source(s): halofan1986@yahoo.com - 8 years ago
Well I'm a very black and white person and will tell it how it is. I really don't see a problem with how you look you have a nice enough face with pretty eyes and nice slim body etc. It really does not make sense to me why you would be insulted like that I hope you insulted them back by the way.
The one thing I think perhaps you should change is your hairstyle I mean not that its bad or anything but I think just perhaps another style would suit you more. Experiment a bit and see what else might look cool. Its just a recommendation/suggestion.
You a pretty girl try and relax a little more and realize your only young with plenty of time to meet guys.
- Anonymous8 years ago
From what i saw nothing is wrong with you,there is the misconception among guys that ignoreing a girl, or being an asshole, will make them come on to them. If you really wanna improve how you look the only thing i could suggest is in some of the pictures your smile looked forced. Just remember that you are your own person and it doesn't matter what other people think
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- 8 years ago
WOW!! Whoever these lads are telling you you're ugly need a slap round the face with a shovel!! Bet they're not much to look at!!
You are really pretty! You've got that typical cute, innocent look about you and theres nothing wrong with that! But trust me, you are far from ugly!!
In regards to the comment about your body.. a lad telling you that means because you've got quite big boobs but look so innocent, I'd say he means with a figure like you're he'd expect you to take dirty pics and be THAT kind of girl dya know what I mean? But its good that you're not because girls who act like that may get loads of attention but they also get used alot.
Girl, own yourself!
So what you're shy! So what you look cute and innocent, dya know what that means?
A genuinely nice guy is going to snatch you up, treat you like an absolute princess and be truly yours! Because nice girls like you always find the nice guys in the end.
But its also known that girls like you get so down and depressed about their looks that the slightest bit of attention from a badboy, they fall for the act and end up getting hurt.
Be careful in that sense because then it is very hard to try and see the difference between the nice guy and the actor.
In regards to hair and makeup, just sit at home one night, go on youtube and find tutorials and stuff and try them out, take a few photos and see what you think. The beauty of that is if you do it wrong or think you look silly, no-one can see you anyway so you can just take it all off and start again, but you'll start to feel better about yourself.
Don't worry about anything, those people are just vile no lifes who probably can't get a decent girl themselves. :)
Email me if you need anymore help or advice :)
- baybayLv 48 years ago
I think your very pretty!
Maybe just step it up a little. Change your hair, do your nails, get new clothes ect.. Just go up a level in yourself to make you feel better
You also have braces which to some is a turn off, once there off afew more guys may realise that you are I fact really pretty
Just remember even people think Miranda Kerr is ugly. Candice swanepoel, ect!
Not everyone is perfect
- 8 years ago
You're adorable!
Hey, I'm 18 and I never kissed a boy, held hands with a boy and I've never been in a relationship either. It's nothing to be ashamed over. If you're shy and quiet (like me) that's probably the issue. Guys usually go for girls that are confident.
- Older & WiserLv 58 years ago
I don't know where to look for your pictures, but people that constantly insult other people do this because they have a low self esteem. They seem to think that they will feel better by by putting other people down. You are hanging around the wrong people if they treat you like that. If you are old enough, get a waitress job or something where you have to talk to people. That will help you get over your shyness.
- 8 years ago
- You look fine.
- The guys who stare at you probably found you attractive but too scared to speak up.
- Them people who say nasty things to other usually are messed up in the head, full of them self (i'm perfect, i only date models.) or a troll! like that one guy that called you a tranny/old woman.
- 8 years ago
Nothing wrong with you. You are nice looking (pretty even).
Maybe you're chasing after the type of guy that isn't attracted to your "type/style". You might be chasing after guys that like tall girls, or short girls, or fat girls, etc.
Source(s): Life - 8 years ago
you are certainly not ugly beautiful girl, stop worrying, a guy is probably rehearsing his lines to talk to you, you'll definitely get your guy. lol... all the best Savannah