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what is this guys deal?
so im in high school and i think hes one grade higher than me, im not sure. in the mornings our groups of friends stand near each other (not on purpose, but its how i noticed him). my friends say sometimes he looks at me, and when my friends and i walk to where we stand, his friends sometimes look at us. i dont know him, ive never talked to him. when i walk to my second period he waits near it for his friend (there arent many people that walk through there, its off to the side) and we make eye contact, a lot. Ive been planning to like smile or something but the timing is always off, so we're not looking at each other. i think hes pretty shy/quiet. hes in my friends class and she says he doesnt really talk. im kinda shy when it comes to certain things too, and if it makes any difference, people compliment me a lot but i dont think im that pretty, idk im insecure. and some of my friends dont think hes that cute, but i do. hes like average, but hes just different. and we arent like "nerds" or anything
****how should i talk to him??**** ive thought of bumping into him but its kinda hard because theres not many people around so i would look stupid just running into him
******do you think hes a little into me? why do we always look at each other?? ****
thank you!!!!
4 Answers
- Anonymous8 years ago
It sounds like you might be noticing him more than he has noticed you. not having seen these 'looks' i cant really be sure. anyway, THATS OK!
I think you really should talk to this guy, you will find out if you like him or not, and what his 'deal' is, beyond being cute. dont listen to your friends that dont like him, if you like him, thats all that matters, and sometimes girls just like to talk negatively for no real reason.
as to how you should talk to him, that easy! Just set aside your nerves and do it! there is no right or wrong way. you sound like a nice enough girl, just be yourself. guys like that. You don't have to "bump into him" just approach him and introduce yourself. ask him what he studies/likes and get a conversation happening. Even tell him he is cute, he will probably be over the moon with excitement!
You are young and have your whole life ahead of you, NOW is the time to experiment with talking with guys and flirting, learning the ropes. It might feel awkward at first, but you will be fine if you just keep your feet on the ground. Everyone is in the same boat in school. Some people pretend they are more experienced and act aloof, but they are usually just as terrified inside.
One more thing! It might sound cliche, but dont let your value be determined by your physical appearance. or his for that matter. There are way more important things to judge people on (and that people will be judging you on) than looks.
Source(s): i completed highschool. i completed relationships. been through it all. - 8 years ago
He really likes you but he's super shy, trust me. This guy use to do that to me and I was shy too, everytime we caught eye contact we would look away add never did talk. Later on, he ended up telling me he had a huge crush on me but was intimidated by me and was afraid I'd turn him down when I thought he was the sexiest thing on earth Lol. Start off by smiling at him as you said send he'll smile back trust me. Then start saying hello:-)
Source(s): Use to be me - Anonymous8 years ago
Maybe every time he sees you, you have a boogie on your face?
You should just go find him and ask him why ya'll always look at each other? #yolo
