should i be nervous about first time?

Dear Jaden,

Being a virgin is not the end all be all in a intimate relationship. If this girl that your dating who is more experienced than you finds it weird, embarrassing or thinks less of you for being un-experienced, then she is probably no the one who I would want to share my virginity with.

Sex. contrary to popular belief, is not a performance. Sex is not porn. It is a intimate connection that you share with someone. Satisfaction is a key part, but honestly, your girlfriend should get some type of pleasure from you regardless of length, girth or "stroke", and if she doesn't...well then shes probably been "experienced" a few more times than necessary for a 18 year old female.

The worst thing you can do is be nervous. As a female myself, I can attest to the fact that uncontrollable nervousness can be annoying. Be tender and romantic but assertive. As to your penis size, don't worry about it. If its longer than two inches then you are fine!

Passion not Porn

Love always,

Mother Eb

Ill try to keep this short but first things first does she know you're a virgin? if so then that helps a lot cuz she'll be patient with you and let you learn everything and get progressively better at it. If she doesnt know then you should just tell her, or at least say you're not experienced.

Second, DONT BE NERVOUS! WHen I lost my virginity it was with a girl I loved and it was both our first time and i was sooo nervous I like couldnt even get hard then when I finally did I got inside her and just busted haha it was so embarassing. But I got better at it the more we had sex. So just be calm and dont think so much about it, imagine youre just like jerking off with some lotion or something haha. Or even better you could let her give you head or a handjob a few times before you have sex so you're not nervous around her naked.

3rd, average penis size is like 6 inches. For example mine is 6 1/2" (erect)

Summary, tell her to be patient with you and the more you guys do it the longer youll last and the better you'll get. Try new positions when you're ready, girls love doggy style and my girl loves when were laying down like spooning and I enter from the back just like that. Like sex spooning. Anyways you guys will have a lot of fun with it sex is awesome haha just dont be nervous your first time! take a breathe itll be okay. And WEAR A CONDOM! Yes it feels 100x better without a condom but unless shes on birth control its not worth it. Although I am a hypocrite in that statement cuz I always have sex without a condom with my girlfriend then when im about to finish I pull out and do it on her stomach. She loves that. But yeah its all a learning experience your first few times. Also if you feel youre about to c u m pull out for a few seconds and calm down then go back in. Sometimes to last longer I concentrate on other things like whats playing on the TV and whatnot haha. Have fun man

Ok Bro first of all I would be very careful as you may putting your girlfriend in legal situations she doesnt want to be in. Second of all, I would strongly considering postponing sex until you are a little older.

If you are sure you want to have sex, please be sure to use protection.

Dont worry about your penis size, you cant control that. Second of all, dont worry about your performance, I would fully expect your first time will not last very long as the first time you put it in it feels like pure magic. If she is experienced, she is not going to expect you to be a porn star on your maiden voyage.