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Sex is too much work! I quit!?

Is there anyone other than myself that thinks that sex is too much work? I am a 45 yo, fit attractive, female who enjoys various activities and a full life. While I think that sex is a great thing, it's just too much work and effort. I don 't want to do it anymore and I am happily single. Why do people make such a big deal about my decision?

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If you don't have anything nice to say, please don't answer. You don't have to agree with me but at least be polite.

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    LMAO. I'm sorry, but the first thing that came to mind after I read your post was this:

    http://youtu.be/sD6kcfsGLJg?t=43s

  • ?
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    I certainly think that relationships are too much work. All that grief, the endless demands on your time and resources, the lack of peace and quiet and freedom just to do what you want rather than what someone else wants. The nagging, the completely unlimited sense of entitlement. And for what? Occasional sex, often mechanical and half-hearted.at that? Plus the realisation that you will probably be dumped the moment someone more appealing, or prosperous, comes along.

    Believe me, It's no picnic being a man either.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    I'm with you there. I have 2 children and after their in bed I'm exhausted and just want a bath and my bed. I just wanna sleep!! People make a big song and dance over it and I just can't be bothered!! I'm also very happily single too, keep doing what your doing sweets and enjoy the decisions you make :-)

  • 8 years ago

    Its ur body. If ur sick of sex, then ur sick of sex. Maybe one day you'll see a hot guy and feel different about it. Just make sure he does most the work ;)

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    I actually understand exactly what you mean and I'm a guy

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    I had to get rid of my last girlfriend because she did nothing, I had to do all the work! #NoThanks

  • 8 years ago

    If you didn't tell them all about it like a preacher trying to convert heathens, they wouldn't know about it to criticize you..... Why do you not keep your sexual choices private?!

  • 8 years ago

    i know dude i'm so lucky my boyfriend does all the work lol. i mean i know he's not 100% pleased that i'm a lazy f​u​c​k and would love for me to do something sometime, but ehhhh!!!!!!

  • 8 years ago

    youd changed your mind if you saw this monster in my pants. or just try being a lesbian or cats

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