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? asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 7 years ago

This guy is being so mean and making fun of my mom. :"(?

So this guy lets call him A.

He is usually a mean guy, i mean he is mean to other girls but he teases them you know sort of like fun and mean and so like years ago i hated him and he hated me it was war and i got suspended because of him but still, i got suspended for throwing his jacket in the girl's toilet because i had enough and he was hurting me so bad i seriously cry. But anyway after that its been cool with us and we been being okay and he makes me laugh but i don't like him and he doesn't like me. But i wouldn't call him a friend yet.

Anyway so i hang out with a group of friends i don't hang with them like all the time just a couple of times and they hang around A and A's other friend who i am also cool with but A's friend is not mean to me or anything he is nice. Anyway so A has a lot of different moods to him he can sometimes be really funny and nice to me and sometimes out of nowhere he is an ******* and makes my eyes water.

So anyway one time A just out of nowhere said something mean about my mom like ''I ****** your mom last night and she loved it she was screaming so loud the cops came" and i said ''no. you ****** your mom'' and then he was like ''NO! Your mom is so ugly and i ****** her and she couldn't get enough''

and my group or friends or whatever just looked at me and their faces were like ''oooh'' sort of like a ''are you going to punch him in the face'' face.

It really hurt me. I am so sensitive like seriously i cry when a guy just says i'm ugly or i'm dumb. I'm a emotional and really sensitive person. The next time he does it should i warn him? Whats a good comeback to say to something like ''I ****** your mom last night and she loved it'' or something mean about my mom.

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  • 7 years ago

    Don't show it hurts, next time he says he -----d your mom, say casually "oh man I'm sorry, I guess you have aids now." Make sure your sarcastic and there are friends around. The key to not getting your feelings hurt and stopping the insults is to act like you don't care and continue the joke by not denying his in the first place, if he says something like your fat, you say yeah I'm sorry I almost suffocated you when I sat on your face last night. Ect.. you'll get the hang of it, and he'll give up and you will be more confident and less sensitive and you'll be a lot more humorous as well. Hope that helps, it did for me :)

    Source(s): Experience
  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Let him know that you're NOT accepting that kind of bs, and you're not gonna hang out with him if he says stuff like that!

    Tell your friends you seriously weren't ok with it and that you're not sure how to get him to stop, not just like 'lol that was weird', and they should have your back.

    If you feel like you really can't handle it within your group of friends, tell a person who you would be ok with talking to about talking to that guy.

    Also, he's CLEARLY a total *******, so he's not worth the effort it takes to look at him. Stay away! And remember that there are many, many assholes it the world, and there are many, many beautiful people. Just don't waste your breath on the first kind.

  • 7 years ago

    Sorry I didn't read your whole post. I stopped at the making fun of your mom part. That's all I need to see. You draw the line there.

  • 7 years ago

    You sound like your in middle school

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