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I miss my ex girlfriend so much right now.. what to do?

I graduated from basic combat training for the army august 31. My girlfriend dumped me the same day due to distance. A week later she texted me how she made out with this guy and I went off on her. I feel bad about that. (I'm normally so super nice to her). We're on bad terms now. When we dated, before the army, it was exactly 9 months. We were seniors in high school. We hung out every single day after school, I slept over every single night, and I lost my virginity to her. With her, sex didn't even matter. It didn't becsuse believe it or not (I know I'm not a normal guy) I loved her smile and her warmth rather then sex. I bought her random presents just to see her beautiful smile. I slept by her side for 9 months every single night in high school. Now, some other guy probably is. She replaced me I bet.. I'm at such a loss. She was my very first love. What do I do? We're 10 hours away now, because I'm in the army. I still love her and will take her back for anything

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  • 5 years ago

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    6 years ago

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  • 8 years ago

    Right now you are living in the past and as much as it hurts you need to look foward. Try and be grateful for all the lessons and life experience gained from your first love but dont let it hold you back. Letting go isnt the same as giving up.

  • 7 years ago

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