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I'm a virgin and I told my boyfriend that I am not?

He is not. Was this wrong of me?

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  • 8 years ago
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    Why would you tell him that you're not a virgin. The whole point of a relationship is to gain each others trust and tell the truth.

  • 8 years ago

    Yes going behind his back isn't the best thing to do. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin and if he likes you enough he won't care if you are or aren't

  • 8 years ago

    You probably hesitated and felt weird that you are a virgin but it's best not to start a relationship with lies. Just tell him the truth, what's the worst that can happen?

  • 8 years ago

    I do not understand why you lied. Always is better say the truth. And you should be proud of being a virgin. This was a mistake.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Yea u shouldnt have lied to begin with. But in reality thats the best feeling i would think. The thought of him being your first( maybe) and the fact that u chose him to be your frst. I cant see him being mad. That would be ridiculous

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Why would you tell him that . You shouldnt lie to him or yourself . You should have said the truth . If he judges you for being a virgin then he dosent like you for you he likes you for s*e*x

  • 8 years ago

    Tell him you lied cause he'll find out if you two do, do it because your cherry will pop. Plus he might like the fact that your a virgin

  • 8 years ago

    Yes! Honesty is the top most important thing in a relationship!

  • 8 years ago

    Was it wrong to lie?Yes.But most of us would do the same thing.I don't think he'd care either way;I wouldn't.Of course he'll find out you lied when you two sleep together.Telling him the truth wouldn't hurt.Still,don't lose any sleep over it.It's probably just because you where nervous and didn't know what else to say.It happens to the best of us.

  • 8 years ago

    Guys actually prefer virgins, so just be honest and tell him the truth. Say you were scared to tell him & he will understand.

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