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Ive never even been in a relationship with the guy, let alone cheated on him!?

Ok so this is a long-ish story so i will bullet point it in sentences.

. i decided to go on The Challenge powered by NCS, the first day i met my group it was pretty awks as none of us knew each other but the following 3 days were great because we all travelled up to Wales and stayed in accommodation.

. whilst we were in Wales, we all got super close, we were the only team to have our own meeting room with a kitchen and everything (it was like our living room/hang out room). we also got close because we did life risking things like ab surfing and mountain climbing. A couple people from other teams would hang out with us there,one of them was "Kevin" (his real name is hidden).

. Kevin became like one of the family, when everyone in my team exchanged numbers (including him), me and him ended up texting every night till early in the morning.

.Kevin knew i had a crush on him, but i also liked his friend "Gary" too and he was aware of this because Gary told him and so did i. Both Kevin & Gary were understanding and said i could take my time in choosing.

. but because Kevin was constantly with me 24/7, obsessively, Gary couldnt get a chance....

Kevin wanted to prove himself to me, whilst at the same time preventing Gary from doing so.... Kevin started calling me his gf and i kept telling him to stop because i wasnt, he kept grabbing my bum and being overly sexual all the time (now and then is fine but not in public or infront of my mum). Kevin kept calling me Mrs (his last name) and saying that he could see me as his wife and the mother of his children etc (ffs im only 17!)

. My mum dissaproved of him, yet id stick up for him because i thought it was a "love sick" phase of his. In Wales he was a joker, always dancing and supportive but back home he was so negative and different.

.It was a friends birthday during The challenge, so those close to her went to Nandos for a meal. Gary saved a seat for me so i was in the corner and Gary was on my left hand side, most of the evening we acted like friends... id flirt a bit by stealing his phone so that he would have to try and get it back and we would hold hands every now and then under the dinner table.

.to me, holding gary's hand was to see what it felt like if i were with him because dont see why Kevin should get it. :l Gary was fine with what ever the outcome was, with who ever i picked which was another reason i liked him (he didnt pressure me)

.so a friend of both mine and kevins told kevin that me and gary had gotten close by text,which upset kevin a lot. this caused an arguement between me and kevin and somewhat gary,in which i told kevin i had met up with gary outside of The challenge too. ( i mean why not if i meet up with kevin outside all the time?)

.kevin blanked me the next time we all meet up at the next "the challenge" event, which upset me because i did miss him in that week he blanked me (considering we met up everyday for 3 weeks before that so the sudden change shocked me)

. then most of my team turned against me calling me a cheater, a whore, two faced and fake. my theory is that because kevin made it look like we were together as bf and gf so people assumed we were...and he also confided in them with his emotions and they felt for him and decided to back him up.

. those that heard my side, knew that i made no commitment to either of them. They also know i have trust issues because ive been cheated on before, i could never cheat on anyone.

.so basically the group and i have been having arguement,debates, issues (what ever u wanna call them) back and forth on whats app up until 2 nights ago. i have now left the group because kevin has finally decided to speak up (even if what he is saying is wrong and horrible (but dont worry i can defend myself and comeback twice as hard))

i just want to know the publics opinion on the situation,if they think im right or wrong.....

and because i graduate from NCS today, which will be the last time i see the two faced b***h*s, how i can deal with this evenings events gracefully (either than ignore etc because thats common sense)

(P.s keep in mind i met these people just over a month ago)

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    Lv 7
    8 years ago
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    id sat move on and forget the bunch of em

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