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Im 19 and never had a girl friend help?

Hey there, I am 19 years old and I have never had a girl friend, Im not proud of it. I have only kissed one girl but I was extreamly drunk when it happen so it dossent really count.

Its not like I don't try, I mean in high school there were plenty of girls that had things for me I just never got the hint till like 6 months later long after they got over me.

I dont think Im ugly (Im like a 6-7/10) I am extreamly active, Im very funny, alittle awkward and people always say "how do you not have a girlfriend?" or somthing along the lines of that. The thing is though as well is that I work long nigh shifts and my days off suck (I work from 5pm till 1am most nights but Im not home till 3am then I wake up around 1pm) I am also in the middle of trying to get into the army so that takes up most of my free time.

Is there any hope for me? I have thought about online dating and what not cause its so hard for me to go up to girls and talk to them.

Am I going to be alone forever or what?

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  • Linda
    7 years ago

    I don't think that you'll be forever alone. But, everything does happen for a reason, maybe you'll find a girl , doing what you love! =) Plus, even if you found out like six months later, girls DID like you, so there must be a reason. As for online dating , give it a shot, you never know! You are only 19, you have plenty of time! All the best luck to you ! =)

  • Blue Planet
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    U r smart & lucky 2 have avoided the silliness & drama that is Jr high & HS relationships, trust me, u missed NOTHING. Now you'll get 2 enjoy the fun of adult conversations geting 2 go places bsides the park or ice cream shop, & have a meaningful friendship. Dont b n a hurry, enjoy your youth, adulthood & reality will slap u b4 u want it 2........

  • just wants to know
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    Ask girls out! Don't wait to see if they are interested. Take risks and they might pan out for you. I have a guy friend who asked out just about everyone, and he is now married.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    This dosent mean youll be alone fofrever. someday someone will come along and youll know shes the one..

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  • Cody
    7 years ago

    I'm kinda sorry to say this but you need to swallow your balls and do what you know you need to or just well give up. Your only 19.

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