i'm thinking of divorcing my husband, but im afraid of what others might think, is this normal ?

It is hard my ex husband and I seperated we made a vow to God as two Muslims however we seperated and as ashamed as I am because he and I do not talk nor will he ever be willing to not check my every move in his mindd I still am his property we are no longer married as I am remarrying my mother did take his side and still wants me to work this out but he and I have been apart grown apart so I have to look like the whore when I have done nothing but moved forward. I do fear him and his idea he can date but I stay home with my father while he's away but I know he won't hurt me you have to do the same meaning go through a lot to come out the end happy.

If you have the financial resources to make it on your own, I see no real reason for you to delay any longer. Even Roman Catholics have been known to divorce, although they can't remarry and remain in good standing with the church unless they can obtain a (rare) ecclesiastical annulment.

Never mind what other people may think. If you live a blameless life, they'll have nothing to squawk about.

I would recommend that you work with a lawyer experienced in divorce situations. There will be a lot of legal underbrush to get through.

Others are not facing the challenges you are, they not the ones sitting there wondering if their husbands are cheating or not. Its you.

Im 30 and have been facing a problem in a sexless marriage. and after being together for 10 years i can now say that im ready to leave it all behind and move on. He does not deserve you and you can only help someone if they wanna help them selves.

Yes its normal to have those concerns. You should do everything you can to save your marriage. If your husband is unwilling to try to make the effort to improve the marriage, you've done what you can. It takes the effort of two people to make a marriage work. One alone can't do it.

At some point, you need to move on. Maybe he will come to his senses down the line somewhere.

this is 2013 not 1953

Put the religion aside, if you're not happy, why bother?

who cares about what people say?

People will always be here to judge you whatever you do.

it's your life, your choice to happiness.

Stop worrying about what others think. Do what you need to do for yourself.

I think you are an ugly woman, go get surgery.......are you gona get surgety just because i think youre ugly? Do you live life pleasing people? If you do then dont divorce your husband and get surgery.