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Questioning my sexuality.......?

First of all I want to point out that I am a firm supporter of Gays, Lesbians, Transexuals etc.....

But lately I just cant get it off my mind. I'm thinking about it constantly. I live in Utah and I know if I were to be Lesbian non of my friends would support me. I had a dream a few nights ago that I just can get out of my head. My dream was basically that I was Lesbian and my girlfriend was a friend of mine (we arent even that close) but now I can't stop thinking about it and idk if I have feelings for girls or not. I really need input what should I do? (I'm a 13 year old girl. Please dont tell me I'm to young to even be involved in stuff like this or anything like that, I'm not a kid and I know what I'm feeling.)

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Dreams are not reality. You can do some pretty weird stuff in your dreams. I've done a threesome with my parents in my dreams -- let's just say, "I'd never do that in reality."

    However, that doesn't mean that you can't question your own sexuality. However, Utah is rather conservative. You're going to have a hard time exploring your sexuality in Utah. But at the same time, you are young and going through many sexual changes. Many people "flip flop" sexual preferences during puberty and eventually settle down when puberty ends. Let's just say I "experimented" a little during puberty, and have calmed down (mostly) heterosexual. My brother was the opposite. He "experimented" somewhat heterosexual when he was younger, and now he's (mostly) homosexual.

  • Bobbin
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    Some people know when they're 9 or 10 that they're attracted to the same sex. However, dreams mean nothing, just your brain exploring possibilities. Time and experience will tell where your affections lie. As for your friends, there are as many gays, lesbians, bisexuals and their supporters in Utah as anywhere else. Religion and social pressure have nothing to do with it. Don't be so sure that your friends wouldn't accept you, no matter what they say or how they act in public.

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