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I'm getting irritated?

Me and my bf live together. We haven't had sex since a week and all he asks for are bjs now. I feel irritated, I have urges too and he's not doing anything about it. What do I do?

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  • Ivy
    Lv 5
    7 years ago
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    I can understand your frustration, just because were girls doesnt mean we dont have our own sexual needs, right?

    You say it's been about a week so far, tbh sweetie, that's not the worst thing in the world, do you ever go through stages where you just AREN'T interested in having sex?

    Women tend to feel like this during a period mainly, but it can happen at random.

    The thing that most women dont realise about men (sad to admit, but like men, women can also be ignorant) is, men can get those feelings too!

    I'd simply approach him about it, be seductive first and if he really doesnt seem interested (or he only wants you to give him a BJ) then question him, dont get b*tchy or impatient with him, as that will probably just end up in him getting p*ssed off and walking out on you.

    Simply tell him you're feeling ignored at the minute, if you're desperate enough, you could even lay out the guilt cards and tell him his lack of sexual interest in you is making you feel insecure about yourself.

    The guy may just be being lazy atm, which again, we all go through.

    I'd give him a chance to explain himself :)

    Hope this helps!

  • 7 years ago

    Simply tell him. Just like you did here.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    7 years ago

    Try talking to him about it.....its called communication.

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