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How much fangirling is enough?

It seems my girlfriend is more interested in Jack bercat or something, all time low and concerts than me. I asked her if she would leave me for a band member if she could and she completely dodged the question multiple times, even when prompted with direct questions multiple times. She also has all her account pictures with that band member instead of like pictures of us, and she said meeting him was the best time of her life. I just feel second. What do you guys think?

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  • 7 years ago

    It seems that your girlfriend may be the typical over-the-top fangirl... Am I right? It's ok, I have friends like that. But the thing is, they will get over the fangirling. I may have gone through that just a few times myself, but if it seems that she puts her favorite singers/ bands before you, you may want to have a sit down with her and actually tell her how you feel. And if she is still ignoring you, than I am sorry to say that it just wouldn't be right to be going out with her if she is spending every single minute with you talking about what the singer had tweeted, or had instagrammed what they were doing. BUT, if you want the relationship to work, than talking it out, being honest with each other, and maybe doing something her and vice versa that she likes or you like would be the way to go. Hope this helped you, and I would be glad to give you anymore advice if you have anymore questions. And sorry this was long, and probably pointless lol. : )

  • 7 years ago

    I understand how pictures with them are her account pictures, thats something most people would do. But you should just deal with it for a little longer. Everyone has a fangirl phase where theyre annoying as fck but everyone grows out of it. If she doesnt and you get impatient, talk to her and tell her how its making you feel, ask if she can cut down on the fangirling while you're with her at least.

  • 7 years ago

    I love all time low and concerts! But I think she needs to stop fan girling over them so much :/

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