Should really read this! (Break-up problem)?

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He told me he isn't coming back, but loves me to an extent and told me I can call him if I really need to. We just recently broke up, so I am scared. Does he really mean that he won't come back? We broke up because I cheated on him, but said he forgave me. (We are long distance) and I kissed another guy out of peer pressure. (Keep note that i'm still in highschool) and I met him by living in his area. we did everything together, everyday. Then I moved 2 hours away from him, and he came all the way up to just see me or go on hikes with me, I know what I did was wrong, But I'm moving back to the school he is going to. Is there a chance I can have him be able to love me again? if so, what do I do? (I'm in the process of doing the No-Contact rule already until I move back up there in 2 weeks)

Please don't judge me for cheating, many people do it. and I was really depressed at the time, He just told me he couldn't do it anymore, but that's probably because of how depressed I was. I don't want to be told to move on, because I know there is still a chance. I just want to be told the chances that I have, Please?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Well, you know your mistakes and if you've learned from them than there is most definitely a chance. You still have a lot of feelings for him, and he said he still loves you… Saying you can call him for anything just means he cares a lot about you. I know because I've said that to one of my ex girlfriends. The no contact thing will help, or it could go against you. The space could give him time to rearrange his thoughts and feelings. Meaning he could realize he doesn't want to go back to you ever again, or there is a chance he could go back with you.

Its alright to keep telling yourself that he will come around, but you must face the facts if he does not and there is a chance. You never know. Theres always down the road. Ive had feelings re-emerge about my ex, after a year and a half. Life's unpredictable, it really is. The one moment your over someone completely, they will want right back in.

Well, good luck Rose G

Micheal · Answer

We do crazy **** when we're depressed, alone, or broken. It's what you learn from it that counts really, so no worries there. As far as your lover goes, I say yeah. It'll be hard work to earn back the trust and get back to where you wanna be but if you really like this guy it'll all be worth it. When you see him next, tell him you want to talk. Tell him you're deeply sorry and mean it, tell him you'll do anything to fix this and get a second chance. But limit the anything part, don't just have sex with the dude for something that might not last again. Go from there, just voice your feelings and follow your heart, it's never led me astray.

Anonymous · Answer

You need to give him a bit of space. Hes probably just really hurt right now and saying things to you out of anger. If he still loves you there is always a chance of you two being back together but you need to convince him that the mistake that you made will never happen again.

Good luck. xoxo

Ovaltine Jenkins · Answer

Sometimes people say things they don't mean in the heat of the moment. It's possible to have him back. He needs time to think about everything, so give him that space. He doesn't need to be convinced of anything. He still loves you, it's just a matter of does he want to act on it. Give him time to think about that..

loving · Answer

maybe his is confused. just give him some time to figure out things. try keeping yrself busy. u will feel better
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