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Too tight for sex, what can I do?
I am 20, and was a virgin until recently. My boyfriend is thick and I am quite tight, so it was pretty painful. We tried twice in one night, and I bleed both times, and then again the next day and I bleed again.
I don't feel like I was tightening, except obviously as a reaction to when it became painful, which just made it worse. I was 'ready to go' too, and had a lot of lube.
What can I do to loosen things up? Any exercises? I'm sort of afraid to try again, which will only make the unintentional tightening a lot worse.
Personal experiences or info from a source would be greatly appreciated.
(And I don't need the 'wait until marriage' thing. You do what works for you, and I'll do what works for me).
Thank you!
9 Answers
- *****Lv 77 years agoFavorite Answer
See a sex-positive gynecologist. You may have an overly thick hymen, which can be cut by your doctor, or another fixable physical issue. They may also prescribe some exercises to be done with vaginal dilators.
- 7 years ago
Lubricant is your friend. Use as much as you need, then use that much more. There is no such thing as too much lube.
#2 Relax. I know you crazy kids want to get right to it but just slow down and relax some. I once had the same problem with a girl I dated. She was extremely petite and I am a big guy, so it was going to be an issue with us. It took several weeks before she could totally relax and enjoy the experience but she eventually did. One thing I was able to do to help her relax was perform oral on her. I would orally stimulate her and she would orgasism and be ery relaxed for intercourse. That's what worked for us.
You guys will figure it out just give it some time.
- LadyMertonLv 77 years ago
are you getting at Least 15-20 minutes of Quality Foreplay?
the female body Need to be aroused properly for the vagina to be ready for sex
and this takes Time & Effort
- Anonymous7 years ago
Have him give you oral sex until you are well aroused and relaxed. I do this all the time, tbh though my penis is small but I'd think it would help. Couldn't hurt! :-)
- Heather CLv 57 years ago
I think this article may answer your question, in a lot more detail than I can do here: http://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexuality/first_...
