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I have a short boyfriend and have dreams of big guys?

My boyfriend is three inches shorter than me and much shorter than the average male. This doesn't really bother me, I think he's attractive and really cute although I sometimes like to poke fun at his height. However I sometimes (not often) have dreams of some random guys (not someone I know) and they are almost always ridiculously big, like 6'7 tall and really built. I'm wondering if this means that I subconsciously have some cave-woman instinct of wanting a large and "safe" mate and my bf's short stature actually bothers me. I would never leave him of course, I love him and this isn't really an issue. I just think it's weird. What do you guys think?

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    Most dreams are messages from the subconscious mind. Typically, you are just processing daily thoughts, feelings and events in the dream. I personally think this dream exhibits a subconscious desire to be wit a larger guy, something you may not want to admit on a conscious level.

  • 7 years ago

    In your sub conscious mind u are not happy with his height,u want a man bit taller.It all depends on your age .For many women big means bigger genitals and there is a preference for biggies.In that way u are mentally linking to some thing else.But height has nothing to do with success in life or married life.

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