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Will I ever find the right person?

First of all, I am not trying to arouse sympathy from people; I am sad, yes - but I didn't come here to cry my heart out. (that would be stupid and pathetic)

I am sixteen and simply convinced that there won't ever be a girl for me because I feel that finding anyone who will ever understand me or be compatible with me is futile. All the girls who have ever liked me, I rejected. All the girls whom I have ever liked, they rejected me. I am lonely.

SO HERE'S THE QUESTION: Is it true that there is always someone for you? Should I assume that I will meet that special person in the future? Will things get better or is this it?

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  • 7 years ago

    I'm 17 and in a similar situation. I've been in a few relationships, but none got far physically or lasted over 3 months. I've recently felt the same as you, but I have figured how to stop this concern. Be okay with being single but still be on the lookout for possible relationships at the same time. Learn to believe that you are a good person on your own and that being in a relationship will only enhance that. As a plus, girls love confident guys who don't revolve their life around a them. Talk to random girls in a casual, non-creepy way and don't be ashamed if they don't like you. Be yourself and if they don't like it, take the attitude that it's their loss. This is also a plus because girls love what they can't have. Start researching and learning what girls are attracted to and how to implement that into your everyday life. Don' be afraid of getting into relationships that might not work out. Who knows if it'll work if you didn't even try? Be open to relationships and pursue what you want, but don't be too stressed out if it isn't working. You'll learn and get better. Don't stress that you haven't gotten far at 16 either. You still have a LONG time until it starts to become weird that you haven't gotten far with a girl. Focus on yourself, be confident, and be open to whatever happens and the girls will be attracted. Good luck man!

    Source(s): P.S. I used to be REALLY bad with girls the not even a year ago and I had asked a girl out and got rejected. I've gotten way better at being confident, being more physical, using push/pull techniques, teasing, not solely looking for positive reactions, passing s*** tests, not sweating rejection, not putting girls on a pedestal, etc. and the same girl who rejected me is starting to be attracted to me now. You can do the same my friend.
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    7 years ago

    You are young, still a teenager, things will get better for you. You will find the person meant for you when you least expect it and are not looking. I think the saying is always true, there is someone for everyone. :)

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