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Help! I need advise... I can't see myself spending my life with a man or a woman?
When I imagine my future idk who I see myself with. I don't see me ending up spending the rest of my life with a man. But I also don't see me spending it with a woman. Why is this? I know that I'm young (16) but usually you know you imagine your future you imagine your life with someone and your kids. I can't I just can't do it. Both seem so wrong! Seeing my life with a man feels weird and not right... Seeing my life with a woman feels wrong and weird... Why is this... Can someone help me...? Please...?
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- StormyLv 47 years agoFavorite Answer
To be honest, I have the same issue. It isn't an error in my romantic orientation, nor is it something to do with my sexual identity. I'm 16 and I fully admit that I don't cope well with the idea of being strapped down.
Aside from avoiding thinking about a life partner (even though I do imagine myself in a house/apartment, with perhaps a rat, decorations, organization)-- I also avoid thinking about college majors and career paths. I associate them with commitment, and I don't feel like I can thrust my all into a single thing, whether that is a person or a lifestyle.
Don't worry. If the kinks don't work themselves out, then you shouldn't worry about them at all! It's not wrong to live life without a permanent partner and many people do it.
