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I can't help but want him regardless of how he treated me? Help please?
Okay so, I've been friends with this guy since maybe May..he liked me but I didn't really know him. We talked more& more, eventually he pulled me away from my boyfriend. I REALLY liked him..we seem too good for each other to be true. We hooked up, started talking, the usual. Then, almost 2 months ago, he had sex with this girl at a party he invited me to. I was very hurt. I blocked it out, met a new guy. He just came back& apologized, admitting how wrong he was& telling me I'm an amazing girl& he has a lot of respect for me. I realized my feelings never left. I still want him, even though he hurt me so bad. I think about him all the time, I can't help it. I had a dream last night that we started over& I was extremely happy. I know it's wrong but I can't control my feelings. Him apologizing only made it worse bc now I have a soft spot for him...well I always did but. Opinions? Were both 19, by the way.
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- MattLv 77 years agoFavorite Answer
"We hooked up, started talking, the usual."
What is the usual? Were you a couple? Were you exclusive? Boyfriend/girlfriend? Because it sounds like you guys were just dating, and then he went a hooked up with a another girl, which he can do because you guys were not exclusive. It was a db move to do it if you were at the same party, but that is what happens when you are not a couple.
If you want to get back with him, then you need to spell out that you guys are an exclusive couple. If you were exclusive when he did the other girl, then forget all that and walk away from the cheating slime. But I don't get that from your question.
- 7 years ago
Well what he did was really messed up and I can understand where your confusion is coming from. If you believe in second chances and you have way more feelings for him then you do for the current guy your with go for it. But just make sure you want to leave the one your with , not everyone believes in second chances . So if you do leave your current guy for the other one and he messes up again the current one might not take you back. So choose wisely !
