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Cuddling with my best friend (I'm a male she's a female)?
So this girl I had a crush on for a long time friendzoned me more than once and for over a year we've been great friends. I've slipped up and tried to make moves on her while we were drinking and she has always stopped me. She recently moved halfway across the country for college so we've only seen eachother a couple times in the last month and we were drinking with our friends one night and we were arguing with eachother all night (about stupid **** as asual) then she ended up cuddling up to me on the couch then when I went to bed she came in and laid next to me and she was talking about how her roomate cuddles with her best guy friend and it's fine (sounding like she was justifying herself) I avoided the advance (imagine that) but eventually we ended up falling asleep in eachother's arms with her head on my chest. Nothing else happened. I've been drunk around her many times and she has never been like this (not to me atleast). Was it the alcohol? Did she just change? was this platonic? what the hell happened?
She was talking about some emotional stuff to at the time so that could have been a factor, but she also mentioned how she has been trying to get this guy she had a thing with to stop talking to her
4 Answers
- Nonny0928Lv 67 years agoFavorite Answer
I think she does like you as more than a friend, but for some reason she is holding back from entering into a relationship with you. Maybe she's afraid of losing you as a friend if the relationship were to end. Maybe it's because she lives far away now. You would need to talk to her about it, but she may not even be ready to admit it to you.
I was in a similar situation years ago when I was single. I worked with a guy who I knew was attracted to me. I was attracted to him too, but I also knew he had too much drama going on with the mother of his child. Still we became good friends. He would come over to my place to hang out and watch movies. We would cuddle up on the couch, but he never made a move. One night the weather was bad and he had drank a few beers. I insisted he stay the night. We cuddled in my bed, but again nothing happened. It just felt good to be close to someone who cared, but yet respected the fact I wasn't ready for a relationship. One night I did ask him to kiss me because I wanted to see how I would feel. I enjoyed his kiss, but I still knew I didn't want to be involved in drama. I was always honest with him and he knew where I stood. We remained friends until he moved out of state to be closer to his child, and I believe he eventually got back together with the child's mother too.
- Anonymous7 years ago
If she "friendzoned" you by saying "good friend" then you probably weren't friendzoned. We girls call everyone a friend whether we like you or not. But she was either interested or felt really comfortable around you :)
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- 7 years ago
There's no way to know for sure. I feel like next time you drink with her you should ask her about it, she's more likely to be honest while she's drinking.
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- 7 years ago
I think she's changing, I mean you know what they say best-friends end up marrying each other in the future, so it might be that she's realizing that she's falling in love w you.
