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So there is this guy. He is a year older than me and I don't know if he likes me. He's never had a girlfriend and I've never had a boyfriend. He's quiet and he hangs out more with older people like his 27ish cousins. We went to a dance together. I asked him and not was a casual dance. Spring fling. We were dancing and I complimented him on being valedictorian and he kept saying thank you. He kept goving small signs he might like me but we went a whole summer without seeing each other. I told him before he wen to college we should go see a movie and then he said umm Id have to see. Then his phone rang and he had to go drop off hay. He then went to college and he came back for x mas and at church it seems like he kept looking back at me. I don't know if he likes me or if I scared him or what. He's hard to tell cause he never flirts with anyone and he's always working. Never around

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    You know the neatest thing about insecurities is that if you FAKE confidence, the other person usually follows your lead. But you have to do it with smiles. Theirs. Make a person smile and they will enjoy "themselves" with your company and open up to JUST ABOUT ANYTHING. So if you're also insecure. Fake the CONFIDENCE, fake the SMILE and take the lead until both the Confidence and Smile become real.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    7 years ago

    He sounds super shy. It is usually the other way around, but you may have thrown enough hints or seeds down so he can get the hint you really like him. It is up to him now.

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