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Should I bother or should I not? ladies?

I asked this girl if she had any plans for NYE and that was sent last thursday, today is sat. Saw her post a picture on instgram so i knew she saw my text. We had our first date, turn out great but not sure if I should just let it go and I hate to wanting to assuming shes not interested because in a way I just wish she could of made things easier and tell me. Should I ask again or just let it go period?

Update:

I did ask if she would like to go on another date and yes in her words she said she would be down so curious why the not respond all of a sudden. I appreciate everyone kind tips and advice. This is the 2nd time I ran into something like this so I never thought be so stressful when all the guy wants to do is know if their interested or not.

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  • ?
    Lv 4
    7 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    I'd just casually ask her 2 more times about going on the date again before giving up. So the 1st one would be like a follow up to what you asked her "Have you seen my text about new year's eve?" then if you can follow it up eventually by "If you liked the first date, why don't we go (have dinner/movies/something) for another one on x day?"

    2nd could be like "Let me know when you are free if you want to go out on a date again, we could do... (???)."

    If you don't get a reply though I'd just move on. If she says yes then cancels last minute, I'd have to judge if you should drop it or not depending on her reasoning.

  • ichigo
    Lv 6
    7 years ago

    If you really like her, ask again as a reminder. If you give up, then let it go. Not sure why she hasn't answered you though, either she's easily distracted and forgetful (like me) or she isn't interested. It's one or the other. Girls have a bad habit of avoiding confrontation. So just go what you feel :D

  • 7 years ago

    I would suggest you to ask her in person if she say she's busy that means she is not interested and you should totally let go,but if she say yes then sure be my guest and go on and make your move.Hopes this help!

  • Ann
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    You can ask her but this smells of desperation. I vote to wait.

  • 7 years ago

    I think you should just let it go.

    Find someone better for you :) someone who won't avoid you.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Yes, I think you should

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