Sam

Met an amazing girl out of state, we talk exchange numbers. Everything went well for 3 whole weeks. Her friend decided to get into a pickle wit the law so now shes decided to focus on friends family and everything. What we talk about was amazing and stuff. We didn't push ourself to move any fast what so ever. I feel like all of no where she became so distance. Original plan was to fly to see her when I can. I surprise her by flying in oct and dec but after what has been going on. She decided to really tell me how she felt. Now She is asking for space. I haven't talk to her since Thursday. I was hoping to just give her space until I was ready to talk to her. Shes at an event wit some friends and wont be back till the following week. Everything went well for us, small little things. Just same verison of me just from a girl. I feel like I can't lose this connection and now shes telling me were just moving to fast bc the fact I book these flights.

The fact shes going through a lot I am respecting her wishes. So I am not flying out to see her, I am waiting when she actually wants to see me then I will fly. That feeling when you finally met someone who is actually like you. Why are girls so afraid to know that for once there could be the guy right in front of u. I might of came on strong a little bit but have back down from it and she said asking her a million questions was a totally turn off for her. My friends believe I should wait and see how things go out

My friend recently went to a rave in shoreline of CA. Called Beyond Wonderland. He had 16 pills of ecstasy and he only sold 2 pills to an undercover cop. I didn't know what he was thinking but now were in a real mess.

Bail was set at 35k

Bond was 3500

Deposit only 500 to cover the cost

My question is for a first time like him, what are the chances of him getting a diverison program or any options we should take.

Hes 22 years of age

Has a job as a barista at starbucks

He goes to school

He has no prior criminal history on anything what so ever, the police officer said he was complying with everything the officers told him to do. I have been searching about all the state laws and what we can expect. We are looking at prior lawyers to find the best possiblities because we don't want him to go. What options can we take. What are the likes of him going to jail for selling 2 pills and also having 16 pills on him at the time. Thank you i need advice !!! Court date is OCT 6 he is freaking out, feeling depressed and were just monitoring to make sure everything is alright

Well Last weekend we had draft night at hooters, and I saw one of the cutest looking servers at hooters. Generally the food not great but there quite a few beautiful servers working there. After I left, I was in a rush because I had to go to work. I tip her 20.00 dollars when the meal was only 8 bucks. I know servers don't make a lot but when I left my friend said that she told me to come back friday night again. So I don't know if that was a hint of me just coming back and tipping her big again or her really noticing me. I did had my friend give her my number but she never text me. So I am confused if I should just go or not. Advice be great. I just wasn't sure if it was a sign that she wanted me actually come back or just to tip her again

I finally had the courage and just snag on a nice friendly chat with my co worker I work with. The fact the matter is we do two different things at our job so it separates us from talking as much. We both work the graveyard shift. Some odd reason I felt a small connection, made her laugh, and saw some giggles as well.

A friend of mine told me that her bf broke up with her last thursday, and apparently her bf and them made up or something. So He left her then came crawling back to her. I guess in a since of feeling from a guy. Should I just straight up ask if she wants to hangout sometime? Last thing I want to do is make things awkard just the fact I see her at my work everyday and I tend to not want to make anything strange. Ive never asked a co worker out before so I would like some inputs on that. She seems like a sweet girl, I'm not a afraid to ask, I felt like at this stand of point. I would be stupid enough not to ask while I see the next guy making that move. I will find out today if she is single or not and hopefully I am crossing my fingers on this one.

I met a girl at work about couple days ago. She is a seasonal temp worker, she apparently hates the job well what I am saying is that we both in some ways are alike. We both actually have tattoos of our ex on our bodies. Yes I know the small little things we do for love. I got mine cover but when she told me, I wouldn't think I would run into someone that would do what I would do for love. I guess question is, I gave her my number and she said she will be busy this week and she said she will be free next week. I guess wondering why she hasn't text me yet? We both work night shift so end of the day we both are pretty exhausted. Next week is her last week so I just wasn't sure if I should say anything? Is it okay to start feeling something even though we just met?. She said she still has the piece of paper I gave her. So I feel like this could be something and I just don't want to lose this chance.

I did try to play it cool other day saying so when are we hanging out. She goes she is free after next week. she did get another job so I know what its like to be busy. Then I said you prolly threw that paper away. The number I give her. She said she didn't and she was honest that if she wasn't interested she would of told me. But she said she still has the piece of paper. Next week is her last week so I wanted to really ask her again and see how it goes. I am just not sure if there any good signs as of now

I met a girl at work about couple days ago. She is a seasonal temp worker, she apparently hates the job well what I am saying is that we both in some ways are alike. We both actually have tattoos of our ex on our bodies. Yes I know the small little things we do for love. I got mine cover but when she told me, I wouldn't think I would run into someone that would do what I would do for love. I guess question is, I gave her my number and she said she will be busy this week and she said she will be free next week. I guess wondering why she hasn't text me yet? We both work night shift so end of the day we both are pretty exhausted. Next week is her last week so I just wasn't sure if I should say anything? Is it okay to start feeling something even though we just met?. She said she still has the piece of paper I gave her. So I feel like this could be something and I just don't want to lose this chance.

Well last weekend I went and drove 3 hours to see just this one girl I have been talking to over a month now. I want to make this quick and short as possible. Well shes has never had a boyfriend before, and i was going to realize it was gonna take some time to really understand where she was coming from. i want to be patient and I was. I knew her over last summer but we didn't start talking till this coming new year. We hangout or went on dates how ever you see it, We saw each other a bunch of times, like 6 or 8 times within the 3 week period during her break from school. I felt like shes really sweet girl and I wanted to really get to know her more. This was like the un expected and I liked it and was hoping this was it.

So after seeing her yesterday and talk and had fun, did rock climbing, walk around downtown and stuff. We finally sat down at a starbucks and just talk. It was very cold where she went to school and it was finish having the snow coming in. So she wanted to be straight and honest with me but she busted out in tears saying she just not ready, she was afraid to feel like she can't be with me or in a relationship. She says she likes me as a person but not fully like me enough to feel same way as I do. sHE got really emotional and I usually deal with bad situations when having to tell someone your just not into them but she really broke down. She told me she never had a guy sent her surprise flowers on valentines day. She thought it was really sweet but said it was too much as well but she loved it. Before she left back to school we were trying to establish the fact we wanted to keep talking because before she left she thought best if we stop talking for awhile. and just drop everything

I know in her mind she doesn't want to stop talking, and Shes only been back in school for about four weeks now. I know shes got a lot going with classes and the fact she really is busy. I am trying to sense to get to know that I don't mind waiting, I'm not asking her to force anything out of her. I just want her to see that there can be a great guy right in front of her. I feel like she sees it or is just afraid. She brought up age difference where I thought it was kinda funny because shes 20 and I am 22. Not a big difference. After feeling terrible and very crappy last weekend. I wanted to establish something from her. She told me once she is done with school over summer she wants to hangout as friends. She believes we met as good or best friends. We hold hands before, I never kissed her yet either. She wants to bring up I should date other people, I keep telling her, Its not that easy for someone to just get out and move on.

My question is do girls really get emotional and they never experience a situation where they never had a guy be so kind or genuie and sweet? Shes never had a boyfriend period. I know it might seem over whelm to her but i feel like we were on a slow stage where I just wanted to understand and get to know her as a person. Some old reason I think she likes me enough to not even tell me thats why shes so afraid telling me. Do girls get emotional after a awakrd talk. Saw so much tears and usually the girls I talk to never break down in tears ever.

I know its a lot but I appreciate if I can get some kind words of understand if Its worth being a friend and get to see, I might not know what will happen unless I TRY. I always heard saying you can marry your bestfriend or the ones you be with are the ones that are your bestfriends. I still want her to be in my life regardless,

So were spending time together on valentines day. Her apt is really small so couple of her room mates are very a lot of people over she told me to get a hotel room where I can stay and sleep. We are not in a relationship yet but were dating. We have been talking for about a month now. She is currently away at school for about 3 hours so I am making the drive this weekend. What ever plans we are doing or having. I just want to be able to spend as much time with her. She has never had a boyfriend before. So I hope this would help on the situation. Originally I was going to stay at her apt and sleep in the living room. I want ot be respectful, shes an amazing girl, someone who is lay back and fun to be around with. Do you think I would cross the line to ask if she would want to stay in the hotel with me for the night?. I don't want to ruin the mood or the weekend for both of us. I did sent her flowers for valentines day this friday which will be sent to her apt as a surprise. I won't be able to spend time wit her friday due to work so I am making the trip sat and spending time wit her for the weekend. So I was curious do you think I would be pushing if I ask her to stay at the hotel with me for the night?

No were not having sexs, I just want cuddle wit her and spend what time we have before I see her again. I want her to know I am serious about us. She told me the reason what is holding her back is the fact she just got back into school and wasn't sure if a relationship was good now. Were playing it by ear but I know that I do care about her and shes just amazing.

I have been talking to this girl since new years day, I guess were dating? since we been seeing a lot of each other. Not in a relationship yet, so I hope maybe I don't want to get my hopes up. Since I am working this friday, I am driving up to see her for valentines weekend for both of us. I am surprising her with flowers and have them sent to her apt by friday. I believe we are on the same page. Shes never had a boyfriend before, shes been on dates but never wanted what she was looking for. I am very respectful, so last thing i want is to have her think I want her in bed. We generally talk from time to time but both of us having busy work and school schedules we do find time to talk to each other. Usually the weekends is when we talk the most. I think shes a keeper, I want her to see there's a good guy in front of her. Shes also meeting some family of mine that goes to VA tech. So were all having breakfast sunday and she said she would love to meet them. I want her to know I am serious, and not her to play games. I am 22 and shes 20. Need thoughts if red roses would pressure her to think I want a relationship right away or maybe another flower color? she doesnt have a favorite flower. Her favorite color is green. I want her to send a message knowing that I am for real and I am serious. Hope this helps!. Ordering flowers in a few mins so love to hear some great advice thank you!

I have been talking to this girl since new years day, I guess were dating? since we been seeing a lot of each other. Not in a relationship yet, so I hope maybe I don't want to get my hopes up. Since I am working this friday, I am driving up to see her for valentines weekend for both of us. I am surprising her with flowers and have them sent to her apt by friday. I believe we are on the same page. Shes never had a boyfriend before, shes been on dates but never wanted what she was looking for. I am very respectful, so last thing i want is to have her think I want her in bed. We generally talk from time to time but both of us having busy work and school schedules we do find time to talk to each other. Usually the weekends is when we talk the most. I think shes a keeper, I want her to see there's a good guy in front of her. Shes also meeting some family of mine that goes to VA tech. So were all having breakfast sunday and she said she would love to meet them. I want her to know I am serious, and not her to play games. I am 22 and shes 20. Need thoughts if red roses would pressure her to think I want a relationship right away or maybe another flower color? she doesnt have a favorite flower. Her favorite color is green. I want her to send a message knowing that I am for real and I am serious. Hope this helps!. Ordering flowers in a few mins so love to hear some great advice thank you!

Next week I am going to visit her for the weekend, I'll be stay in her apt, lets just re phrase what I said, No were not sleeping together. This one is def a keeper. Were dating but aren't official. Shes never had a boyfriend before but shes been on dates with other guys. I've been planning some ideas but haven't decided what I really want to do. It's a small town in blackburgs VA. Plan was hike during the day and finish it off with movie and a dinner. She doesn't mind dinner at apt or I figure maybe we can go out and get all dress up. I will be sleeping in living room. not in her room, I guess in a way at first I wanted be respectful by getting a hotel and not invite myself in but when she ask I couldn't say no. I don't whats going to be happening that night but I just want a special Valentines for the women I care about so much. Who knows maybe she's be ready to be my girlfriend then but I am taking my time with this one.

Well we been talking since new years day,. Shes in school, I recently got off the phone wit her about an hour ago just talking. I ask her about if she wanted to spend time on valentines day. Since she goes to school 3 hours away. She said she would want to. Were dating but not in relationship if that makes any sense. I told her If I was going to come up, I would just stay in at afforable hotel. I do have family that goes to her same school but there freshmen and sophmore so I am pretty sure I don't want to stay in there dorms either. I told her I said we could drink wine at the hotel but she sense IDK. we will see, LAST thing I want her to think is that I am aiming for sexs or anything and I am not that guy that does that either. We haven't kiss, only kissed her on the cheek. We have been spending time together when she was on break a lot. She's never had an actually boyfriend. Shes been on dates before, so I really want to give her a nice valentines day. I just hope she isn't worried or concern that I am planning for something that won't happen and that's sex. She told me to give her time before so I want to give her all the time she needs. Shes taking 8 classes, so she has a lot on her plate but we want to make this work. Maybe she will change her mind and possibly end up being my girlfriend on valentines day?. I don't know. Do you think I came to strong wit the whole wine thing? Shes 20 and I am 22. Trust me, last thing I want to do is hurt her, or take an advantage of this girl. Shes def a keeper

Well its around the corner, we been talking, I guess were dating since were not in a relationship yet. Were still talking to each other and making this work which shouldn't be a problem. She goes to school 3 hours away, so I was thinking messaging her roomate? and see if she could help me with the surprise. The thing is, I don't know if I am stepping a boundary. She has been posting pictures of her and her roomate. So I am pretty sure its her. Or should I just ask her about it and see what she wants to do instead? We been talking since new years day and she went back to school today. What is your thoughts? I just wanted to do something special. Shes never had an actually bf, shes been on dates where she didnt like how it ended so I want to make this different for her and know a great guy is in front of her.

Talking to this girl for weeks, been spending lots of time together, last night was the first night that I told her that I like her and see if we could make things work; she was up for it. The catch was she going back to school that was 3 hours away and shes taking 8 classes this semester. We had our talk again, up what's going to happen next. Its only going to be for three months and I would see her again over the summer. I am planning to make my first visit the weekend of valentines day. She told me she wanted to be with me but she just doesn't know what is holding her back. She keeps telling me that shes not ready or the relationship is not the right time for us. We are going to continue keep talking because nothing change the fact how we feel for each other. But I was wondering do you guys 2 guess a lot. I know its in her hands, she told me lets see how it goes and we will ask how we will feel for each other then. But I've decided to continue to really go after this girl. I think shes amazing person. Shes never really had a boyfriend before either. Shes dated but not relationship wise. She said she doesn't want to hurt me either. I did kiss her on the cheek instead of lips,so i did wanted to be more respectful towards her but she leaves tomorrow morning and I know that I am going to miss her while shes away.

All I know is I don't want but of us to regret what if what if we were together, what happen then?. But I am going to continue to keep talking to her and takes things slow wit her

We went on our 2nd date last night. We have seen each other 4 times out of the 2 dates. Other two times was when we work out together. Went for a run wit her this morning. Next wed were going on our 3rd date and possibly final date. Before she leaves. We have been talking almost bout 4 and half weeks now.

Concern is shes going back to school next weekend and what was really embrasssing was when we had dinner last nigh my aunt ask if that was my gf i said no shes just a friend and they kept telliing her my date taylor that i was a nice man and that shes a keeper. I just didnt know if it made things awkard between me and her. Saw taylor giggle and said no its fine and stuff

Other concern is im the one generally texting her. So wasnt sure if that was a red flag because im always one starting the text. Also the fact shes taking 8 classes this semester idk if she will even have time to really have a boyfriend. We havent discuess about relationships or what were looking for when we meet someone but should i tell her i like her?. I feel like ill regret not saying the things i want to say to her. I was gonna say tell her last night i like her but we just had an amazing time together. I just don't know if shes into just because shes hasn't told me if she just wanted be friends or anything period.

I think she likes me sinces we been on 2 dates and workout twice already. She already down to go out wed night again.

We are hanging out the 3rd time. This is out 2nd date out of the 3 times we saw each other. First time dinner and talk long hours. 2nd time we work out together. Tonight were gonna do something fun. dinner and I got free tickets to go see hereclues so i figure that should end the night.

I don't want to fall back on texting but since I am only one that actually text her instead her texting me. Could that be a red flag? She does respond back which is always good but I am curious if this is something I should worried?.

She goes back to school next sat so I want to be able to see her one last time before she goes back. Since we been talking for about 3 weeks. is this the right time to tell her tonight? that I like her or wait until that 3rd date?

I am assuming she sees something in me since we saw each other twice already. this is our 3 time seeing each other. Thoughts?

Like some advice on what could happen or how she feels?

If you guys don't make the initial text contact first sometimes means you guys aren't really interested? Been talking to this girl for weeks now and been hangout couple times already. I am usually the one texting her and idk if she is just being polite about it and responds back. But this weekend I am thinking of letting her know I like her and how I feel because she goes back to school next sat so want to not regret not saying anything or should I just wait after all?/ but should I not let her know that I like her just because I don't want to make things strange between us. More of my friends are telling me that I would regret not saying the things I feel and if I wait it out I might miss a chance on something great. Really haven't discuss relationships or what we want but I do enjoy her company and time together. Shes 20 and I am 22. Chance I might see her sat but she might have to be somewhere with family obiligations she said there's a slight chance but I wanted to know if I am setting myself up for failure by letting her know how I feel. or should I just move on from this?.

Were friends as of now, we went to dinner as friends but assume it was more because the fact it was a very long dinner and we sat and talked for hours. We have workout together today which was great and I told her I enjoyed it with her and she enjoyed it as well. We have text several times before, she leaves for school in about 2 weeks or so, so I am hoping to spend as much time before she goes back. But usually when is it a good time to let someone know? I've show several signs but I figure I want to establish a good connection.

Well I had Lunch/Dinner other night with a friend on new years day. Expect to be at least 2 hours or something for lunch but end up not leaving till 8:30ish that night and had lunch at 4:30 or I guess dinner. Well It was great to see her again and catching up on things. We talk and talk for hours and she asked a lot of questions and I did as well. She was def wanting to know more about me and my family and such and I ask about hers. I enjoyed her company as much but in a way. I didn't want to give too many signs I was possibly interested.

But if you had dinner with someone as a friend but realize different about it. and had a long *** dinner. Did it mean something? the fact we talk so much that we talk about literally anything.

I am also doing body pump at the gym with her tomorrow. I am curious if she was interested in me or not? Shes 20 and I am 22. Shes home on break from school and she goes back in a few weeks so I figure spend as much time before she hits back but was curious did it mean anything or just a mutual connection as just going to dinner.

If it was another friend I knew I wouldn't stay too long but we did and I feel different about her in a good way.

I asked this girl if she had any plans for NYE and that was sent last thursday, today is sat. Saw her post a picture on instgram so i knew she saw my text. We had our first date, turn out great but not sure if I should just let it go and I hate to wanting to assuming shes not interested because in a way I just wish she could of made things easier and tell me. Should I ask again or just let it go period?