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Is it wrong for me not to trust or believe what this guy is telling me?

We've had 2 dates, we get along well & seem to hit it off. He tells me he is interested in me. He tells me he is looking for a LTR and not a FWB thing. He says he's not a multi -dater, never was and isn't about to start now. I've met so many jerks & morons that what I've been told & hear it all by men & what actually is are two different things. OMG, I could write a book! I don't want to not believe him but yet I'm thinking in the back of my head.. yea right, sure you do. He also doesn't like to text { he feels its impersonal & emotions can get misunderstood} or talk on the phone { due to his job, he talks a lot on the phone}. So he'll email me when he wants to see me, he prefers to talk in person to get to know the person he said. He lives an hour away from me as well. He is also in the process of a divorce. Am I right or wrong in my thinking or am I just so used to running into pig heads that my trust is gone? He seems to be honest with his answers when I ask him questions. He says to me is there anything else you'd like to know about me? Oh yea.. and sex is when we are ready & when it happens between us we'll know.

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  • Jake S
    Lv 4
    7 years ago
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    It’s right that you don’t trust the guy, but I feel that his whole divorce situation is a bit odd. You say he’s this cool honest good guy but then why is he having marriage problems then.

    A guy this good and honest who seems to be all that shouldn’t be getting a divorce unless problems are all coming from his wife only. If knew more as to why there’s a problem with his marriage but even then he could still lie about some facts he doesn’t want to mention to you.

    The beginning is always sweet good cute fun for long while then it changes. Yep stop seeing him. A guy getting divorced shouldn’t be so quick to meet another girl so soon and fast. The divorce isn’t even done yet and he’s already got you hanging out with him.

    Seems like he wants company and then it will be followed by sex and it will if you keep talking and seeing him. So stop seeing him and talking him.

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