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Was it wrong of me to send this text to my girlfriend?
So, me and my girl (both 24) have been dating for 2 years and my girlfriend have been acting distance for about 2 month. I know there is a lot going on with her life such as finding job as she just graduated from grad school. I know she has time in her day where she could spend with me but she doesn't. Hate to say but I'm madly in love with her but she doesn't reciprocate anymore. We text only one or two time per week currently, always being me that initiate. And last night, out of blue, I've sent her this message out of desperation that I haven't got a reply.
"I suddenly remembered that time when we sneaked into park when it was dark and \we sat on grass beside lake. Good night"
Boy did I felt weird this morning. Feeling extremely embarrassed that I want to choke myself. Could you give a hand in this situation? Thanks a lot!
3 Answers
- ?Lv 47 years agoFavorite Answer
Not wrong, as you could have just had an old memory pop into your head and wanted her to remember. But saying good night at the end was like saying you weren't expecting a reply.
Strange if you only text a couple of times a week, but have been dating for 2 years. Normally people in that long a relationship see each other almost every day, or have some sort of communication every day.
You need to be open with her and speak to her about your feelings face to face, or it will eat you up inside.
It's better just to ask her if something is wrong. You might not get the answer you want...but at least you'll know whats wrong.
- 7 years ago
Just come out and ask "are you still interested in the relationship" or ask if she id dating someone else
If the answer is not what you expect them you have to MOVE ON....
- Anonymous7 years ago
Don't feel regretful one bit. You're expressive, that's who you are . You told him something sweet. How could he make you feel bad about it. If he does, then who cares.