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Lv 4

Okay guys what happened here?

I met a guy two months ago who told me he "didn't do relationships". But he started to change his mind, I believe. Out of nowhere, he began telling my good friend all about how cool he thought I was. And how excited he was to hang out with me again... I found this odd, but I went along with it.

See, he showed me a lot about himself and his life, and I gained interest. I thought he was cool and wanted him to like me, so I began to adopt his habits and like the things he liked. But something happened. As soon as I began flirting back with him and expressing my new love for the things he loved, he became distant. We went from texting multiple times a week to nothing at all. I got worried a few nights ago, got a friend to speak to him for me, and found out that he got a new girlfriend the very next day.

He was apparently speaking with her when we first met, but wanted to "keep his options open" so he wasn't dating her officially. I thought he really liked me. He said I was beautiful and fun and he loved chilling with me! Do you think I chased him away when I started to get into the same things he was? When I started to reciprocate the feelings back? What did I do wrong? Did he probably love her all along and I was just a fun thing?

I didn't cause any drama or hurt, so I don't know what the problem is. I am over him, but for closure, I want to know what you think about all of this.

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  • John W
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    This is actually fairly typical behavior for a guy trying to decide between two women. You didn't do anything wrong, and it is nothing against you. He just chose the other girl is all What he did wasn't the nicest way of doing things but do you think you would still see him if he said he was seeing another woman besides you?

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