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Lv 4

How to stop being a lust object for men?

I always get hurt because I will fall for a guy, but he sees me for my body only. Before you say I fall for the wrong people, it's true. But I am having to watch a player (whom I liked a lot, but wouldn't fall for me) fall for the girl of his dreams. It's painful to say the least. I don't dress like a slut and I flirt minimally. I treat others with kindness and respect, and all I get are the guys who want sex. Please, guys, tell me what would make you be serious about a woman and not just lust after her, but respect her?

I am sick of being broken.

Also, is this video true for you?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kknxe8tXnPU

Update:

I am 19 and I usually fall for guys who are 23 and older. Just F.Y.I.

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    7 years ago
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    go out with mature guys ----- they automatically respect you and want more than sex ----- there is nothing you can do its the guys ---- stop even looking at guys your age they are far too immature for you

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Post pictures of your body so we can help

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