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What to do about my youth group?
Very recently we got new youth pastors at church and they're very kind people, but my friends don't seem to like them or their son who I've gotten close to. They haven't done anything rude but I believe my friends are upset because our old youth pastors are moving and we're all close to them. Well when they noticed that I didn't hate the new youth pastors like they did my "friends" started leaving me out of everything and being very rude. Worst of all my best friend of 12 years suddenly hates me because I really like their son and he might like me, I've always supported her and confronted her when we were fighting but now she won't let me talk to her and she clings to her boyfriend 24/ 7. I don't understand why she wouldn't want me to be happy and why everyone else has to act like this. Can someone tell me what's happening in our youth group and why everyone would be acting like this??
8 Answers
- ?Lv 47 years agoFavorite Answer
It's change, their isn't a whole lot you can do besides wait and pray. Pray to God that things work out and that you and your friend work things out.
PS-You have to be saved to pray, otherwise God won't hear it. I believe you are from what you said, but just in case please visit this website: http://peacewithgod.jesus.net/mobile/?gclid=CNH7m_...
I hope this helps :) Things should all work out with time, God works in mysterious ways.
- Larry RLv 67 years ago
Ummm you said it yourself "my friends are upset because our old youth pastors are moving"
Part of growing up is learning how to appropriately express emotion. Some people never get the hang of that, to be honest.
Right now the new pastor is disliked simply because he's not the old pastor. It's like when my son was born. His Mom would go off to school during the day and I would take care of him during the day, and he was ANGRY at me...really angry at me... simply because I wasn't his Mommie. It wasn't like I could do anything about that.. but he was only 1 and didn't know or care about that. All he knew was he wanted Mommie and I was NOT HER. So he didn't like that... so he didn't like me.
So your friends are doing the same thing. They don't want to like the new pastor because they feel that doing so makes them disloyal to the old pastor. They don't like you or the pastor son for the same reason. It's not very smart and it's not very mature, who is at that age? I wasn't.
So don't freak out. With any luck this will pass in a few weeks, and everything will work out.
- ?Lv 77 years ago
Churches are often like this, alas. You of course might be just a teensy bit biased considering you appear to be sweet on the son. ;) Stick with your new friends and let the old ones know you're ready to be friends with anyone who's friendly and don't give a fig for anyone who's not. Don't let yourself fall for a boy all at once. Get to know him first (and no, you DON'T know him yet.)
- ?Lv 57 years ago
Not sure how old you are but it sounds like a young crowd. Younger people generally want their friends to agree with them its like "I have your back". You dont have to follow the crowd. If your friends are that petty that they would drop you just because you dont agree with them, then find new friends hun. Real friends arnt going to get rid of you for something that petty.
- ELv 77 years ago
seems to me the so called youth group is about itself and NOTHING about God the reason they are suppose to be there to start with...But as i keep telling people..God said He Does NOT dwell in temples made with hands and why HE is not among you !!!!
- namelessLv 77 years ago
"Whoso has three things is beloved of God. The first is riddance of goods; the second, of friends, and the third is riddance of self." - Meister Eckhart
- 7 years ago
Because you all worship the devil! Return to the depths of Hell, wretched beast! BEGONE!