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Sexually frustrated...how can I tell my bf?!?

I just got home from my boyfriends house and I'm crying. And I don't know why. And I can't stop. Everything was perfect, he's so sweet, sexy, funny...I love everything about him.

The problem is that I am so sexually frustrated and I need release so badly. Whenever we are together we make out and it gets really heated but we are both too scared to take further. I know if I want it so badly, I should just make a move. But I want HIM TO. What could I say over text to hint that I want us to hookup more often?!?

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  • Joe
    Lv 5
    7 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    "I am so sexually frustrated and I need release so badly"

    First I suggest that you start birth control before you go any further.

    The best way to resolve any problem is to find the reason behind it. It sounds like both of you are virgins and have some idea of waiting for marriage before having sex.

    The truth is that very few people actually wait until marriage before having sexual relations. So you need to communicate with your boyfriend that you are not happy with the way things are now and you are ready for a change.

    The guy probably does not understand the pressure you are under. You are waiting for him to make the first move. That is not the way to get what you want. You will have to take the lead and start the ball moving.

    On your next date with him just get your make out session going. Be aggressive and be the one in control. I think that usually you allow yourself to build up your excitement to a point and stop. Just give yourself permission to continue until you release your pent up sexual tension.

    Trust me that once you are confident and are truly satisfied you will feel much better about yourself.

    Good luck.

  • 7 years ago

    Simply ask him he's ready to do more then makeout :b or tell him that you want more

  • 7 years ago

    Just ask him if he is ready for it :)

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    dont dance round it. jus b straight up. tell him 'ey we shuld ****. u down'. nothin gon get dun if u dont do ****

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