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We are both home from college. We were having sex in his basement and suddenly the light for the stairs turned on (his family members always turn it on before they come down at night) and immediately my boyfriend saw it, stood up, and went to grab his clothes. He told me to go to the bathroom and stay there, becuse if anyone came down he could just tell them I had to use it. It ended up being nothing...no one came down. So we kept going.

Is it possible that he got so scared in that moment that he came? I'm only asking because when we have sex I always know when he finishes...but this time I'm almost positive he didn't come, even though he said he did. He told me he came on my *** and I didn't see anything nor feel anything.

Every time I've had sex with my current boyfriend and first sexual partner, I have hurt afterwards down there. I think this is because it is usually very deep and fast penetration, and without getting too graphic, it gets rough.

I love this, but I hate being sore the next day, because 1) it hurts, and 2) I can't have sex. My boyfriend doesn't know this yet because we just recently started having sex. I'm worried the he can only climax from this type of sex, so what can I do to not get so sore?

Before I met you

I was ruthless about grammar.

I was snobby about Oxford commas,

relentless toward the use of incorrect articles, unforgiving when it came to minor spelling mistakes.

But then you came along

With your alluring brown eyes, your irresistible smile, and your little grammatical errors.

So I made an exception and accepted the fact that you don't know the difference between "except" and "accept"

And I got the sense that you meant to say "since" whenever you said "sense"

Since it didn't make sense like that.

But my point is not to be condescending or remark on all of your nonexistent flaws.

What I'm trying to say is that suddenly, one of my greatest pet peeves transformed into something endearing...something perfectly incorrect. I learned from you that a person is more than the adjectives they choose. I learned that one's character is not to be judged by their skill in arranging letters.

What really matters, is not the presentation of one's thoughts, but the thoughts themselves.

What I failed to see before you is the raw, inaudible, meaning behind what someone wants to communicate to you when they speak or write. That is what really matters. The reason for their words.

I learned that it is an utter inequity to judge someone's intelligence based on their ability to form a sentence with an unmarred structure,

When their compassion for others

And the way they speak to children

And how they hold your hand when they drive

And kiss you when you're upset

And their su

It's a piece I wrote about my boyfriend of almost one year. We're deeply in love, but I've never let him read anything I've written!

I think of you at red lights, when I'm drinking coffee in the morning, during late night movies, while writing the date on my paper in class. But to be truthful, you're on my mind at 11am and 11pm, and all the time in between. You linger in my head like your cologne on my clothes until the second I drift into sleep, and you occur to me in the moments before I open my eyes in the morning. I spend the intervals in between seconds thinking of the freckles on your face, and your flawless, innocent smile. And when I wake up alone at 4am, I crave to hear the sound of your sleepy voice and feel your hands around my waist. I so badly want to hear your heartbeat, and taste your lips every time I go to sleep next to an empty space where you should be. You can make fun of me for being so cliche, but I swear, you have eyes just like the stars... endlessly fascinating, hiding countless secrets, yet somehow still so familiar, and never unrecognizable even in the darkest of nights. Kissing you elevates me so high up into the clouds that it's an instant reflex to smile immediately after my lips leave yours. And every single time you open your mouth to speak, I feel myself sinking deeper into love with you, falling closer towards the point of no return with every word you say. You are nothing less than perfection. You are nothing less than everything.

Listen to the piece I wrote about my boyfriend and let me know if you think it's too cheesy to let him read ;)

http://m.soundcloud.com/user930706670/thinking-of-...

How do I find the inverse of this?!?

Should I tell him about my dream?

Just hung out with him, feel like I made him upset even though he said nothing was wrong. He seemed like it to me. Is it worth apologizing for over text now that I'm not with him? It wasn't a big deal but I still feel bad.

I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year. We are each other's first everything, and recently we had sex for the first time because he stayed the night. However, when we hang out, he gets every time we makeout...yet doesn't try anything. When we're laying down and I'm on top of him, just cuddling and kissing now and then while watching a movie, he always scratches my back and moves his hands around my body, occasionally snaps my thong, and my bra strap. Sounds a little sexual right? But here's the thing...yesterday I asked him if he could undo my bra with one hand as a challenge, and he did it. I kissed him, hoping he'd start feeling me up, but instead, he just clipped my bra back together for me. I KNOW he's turned on because, I uh, I can feel it underneath me, if you know what I mean hahaha.

I get really turned on too, but I don't initiate going further because I am never SURE that he wants to.

Why? Why isn't he being more aggressive?

Is he just being respectful? I can't understand why he's okay with getting blue balled every time we hang out. Making out leads to other things for us maybe 1/10 times we hang out. You'd think he'd be more aggressive with initiating something if he really wanted it, wouldn't you?

I think he's lying about me making him finish. I've never felt SURE that he's come. We've been together almost a year, and we're each other's first everything.

When I've given him oral, it's hard for me to tell if he comes, because I can taste something coming out, but I think it's precum because it doesn't shoot out like I though semen was supposed to. Last time, after I tasted what I thought was precum, I asked him if I should keep going just to be sure, and he said yes. I kept going until he *cringe* told me I could stop. I assumed that he didn't come, and felt defeated. I told him he has to help me and teach me how to make him how to do it better for him. This is where things get confusing.

I then said, "I really want you to come." He said, "Well we'd have to wait a little while, you already made me finish once."

"I did?!"

"Yeah, before I told you to stop"

I feel like he's lying to me just to make me not feel bad. :( I might be overthinking this, but I have a gut feeling that he's never actually finished with me. It's frustrating because I've researched so much and read a ton about how to please a man, and I've been watching porn for years, so I like to think I know what I'm doing. He calls be baby and breathes hard and looks like if fe

Where do I go from here? Should I confront him? We're the type of couple that gets along beautifully, never a fight or had to bring up a conflict and have a serious talk about us, but I'm willing to do that.

Calculate the amount of heat produced when 2.5 moles of methane (CH4) burn in an excess of air. (∆H for this combustion reaction = -890.0 kJ/mole CH4).

Nick and Katie placed 150.0 mL of 25°C water in a Styrofoam cup calorimeter. They then dropped in a piece of aluminum that had been in 100°C boiling water. The temperature of the resulting solution increased to 35°C. What was the mass or the piece of aluminum metal? (Specific heat of liquid water= 4.184 J/g°C. Specific heat of aluminum= 0.89 J/g°C).

Do all guys shoot out semen? Or do some ooze out? I'm asking because when I give my boyfriend head, he tells me he comes, but I never feel anything shoot out, even though I taste something that I think might be semen, but what I thought was precum. He tells me when to stop, but not when he comes, so I'm confused :( I want to know if he's lying about whether or not he came to make me not feel bad that I can't get him off, or if he actually comes but just doesn't shoot out a load.

I'm 16 and a female, and lately I can't stand being around my family especially my mom. I get super easily agitated at the things they do and say, and I'm constantly annoyed and angry at my parents for criticizing me about how I'm doing in school and how I spend my time. I work really hard and don't get in trouble...but they are always on me. I know this just means they care but I can't stand them most of the time. I hate being so uptight and short and annoyed at them, but I can barely control it. Is this normal, and is it my fault?

If she sent you a picture of this quote and said it made her think of you? Dating for 7 months and definitely in love :) we tell each other that every say. Here's the quote:

"I didn't want to fall in love...not at all. But at some point you smiled and holy sh*t, I blew it."

If she sent you a picture of this quote and said it made her think of you?!

http://a-thousand-words.tumblr.com/post/6454231974...

He's such a tease. When we're laying down and watching tv he'll do stuff like hold my face and kiss me so well that I get completely entranced in it, only to have him pull away suddenly and smile.

Or he'll get on top of me and kiss my neck, and then pull my shirt up and kiss down my stomach, while looking up into my eyes, and he'll kiss all the way to my pants, stop, smile, and then come back.

How can I tease him like he teases me!? I already do a little of that, but I want to make him crazy and turn him on more than he turns me on...which is a lot.

We are both 16, virgins, and have done everything together except for sex. He is very affectionate, whenever we are together he touches me and holds me and we kiss a lot. He calls me beautiful every day and says I'm gorgeous and cute and he'll tell me I look "really pretty" on the days that I try a little harder than normal. He tells me I'm perfect all the time and makes sure I know how lucky he feels to have me... But despite all of this, I feel like I might be unattractive to him, because he hasn't tried to initiate sex, and rarely initiates anything sexual, although I know he gets hard every time we make out. We have been together for 6 months. I know I'm not ugly but I'm not totally comfortable with my body, I'm 5'3" and I weigh 120 lbs...so I'm not skinny, but not fat either. He's thin and muscular at 5'11" 145lbs. Is it possible he just isn't interested in sex because of me

He's the most respectful boy I've ever met, and would never pressure me to to anything sexually. When we

I just got home from my boyfriends house and I'm crying. And I don't know why. And I can't stop. Everything was perfect, he's so sweet, sexy, funny...I love everything about him.

The problem is that I am so sexually frustrated and I need release so badly. Whenever we are together we make out and it gets really heated but we are both too scared to take further. I know if I want it so badly, I should just make a move. But I want HIM TO. What could I say over text to hint that I want us to hookup more often?!?

What is something that a girl can do to turn you on sexually?