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? asked in HealthWomen's Health · 7 years ago

How do I prevent getting sore after sex?

Every time I've had sex with my current boyfriend and first sexual partner, I have hurt afterwards down there. I think this is because it is usually very deep and fast penetration, and without getting too graphic, it gets rough.

I love this, but I hate being sore the next day, because 1) it hurts, and 2) I can't have sex. My boyfriend doesn't know this yet because we just recently started having sex. I'm worried the he can only climax from this type of sex, so what can I do to not get so sore?

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    use lots of lube and tell him to go slower. I have to remind my boyfriend that I am not a blowup doll that I also have pain with sex because I am not use to it either yet and he slows down and goes at a nice pace.

  • 7 years ago

    If it's sore speak up otherwise things will.stay the same. If you feel uncomfortable having the conversation then you shouldn't be having sex. Talk to him.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    Unless you speak up, he is going to keep doing it the same way. I highly doubt he can only climax that way. Rough sex can be fun, but you have to do it in moderation or you;ll only be hurting yourself.

  • 7 years ago

    Probably not wet enough.

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