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Teen boyfriend doesn't seem to have sex?! Please help!?
We are both 16, virgins, and have done everything together except for sex. He is very affectionate, whenever we are together he touches me and holds me and we kiss a lot. He calls me beautiful every day and says I'm gorgeous and cute and he'll tell me I look "really pretty" on the days that I try a little harder than normal. He tells me I'm perfect all the time and makes sure I know how lucky he feels to have me... But despite all of this, I feel like I might be unattractive to him, because he hasn't tried to initiate sex, and rarely initiates anything sexual, although I know he gets hard every time we make out. We have been together for 6 months. I know I'm not ugly but I'm not totally comfortable with my body, I'm 5'3" and I weigh 120 lbs...so I'm not skinny, but not fat either. He's thin and muscular at 5'11" 145lbs. Is it possible he just isn't interested in sex because of me
He's the most respectful boy I've ever met, and would never pressure me to to anything sexually. When we
4 Answers
- 7 years agoFavorite Answer
It could be because he isn't ready. Or that since you say he is respectful maybe this is his way of respecting you.
- 7 years ago
My advice to you is that I think that he doesn't want to have sex with you because he wants t wait and he might find that special maybe he wants to wait a little and you guys are 16 why rush into sex for? That's something beautiful a person can have.. many people I know have lost there vriginty has regret it and wished they never lost it.. you guys have been only dating for 6 months why in the world you want to rush for? Your a little girl.. stop thinking about sex and focus on your education sex can wait.. I am 18 a vrigin and I'm not trying to be cocky or anything but I think I'm attractive I have a boyfriend and he respects me and my body.. I think you need to start tinking about things instead of rushing.. talk to your partner and see and if you want my instagram its Malorie_098 (: just to show you that I'm not really bad looking lmaoo good luck
Source(s): Own advice Listen to it - Anonymous7 years ago
I think you're still too young to have sex. It can be the fact that he's respecting your virginity. He knows how much a girl's virginity means to her so he doesn't want to push it. He's probably more of a emotional lover than a physical lover. I'm just gonna assume that if you guys have sex now, you will regret it later because losing your virginity is a huge thing. If you're going to lose it, then you should lose it to someone you KNOW you're going to marry.
- Anonymous7 years ago
Sounds like he's just trying to be polite. If this is what you want maybe you should initiate, however he may be waiting untill he feels right/marriage. It probably has nothing to do with you.
