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My GF of two years keeps taking this guys calls. Should I confront her?

She says he is just a friend and not her type. . She also told me he is madly in love with her and waiting in the wings. I know how these "not my type" scenarios can go. It just seems she is building false hope with this guy, maybe. I do not want to come across controlling. I should bring it up, right?

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  • 7 years ago
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    Some people enjoy the flattery (if that's a word.) of knowing there is someone "waiting in the wings." I've known people who let this escalate into something more. I would bring it up and demand that she stop taking his calls. It's not as if they're just friends. He is actively pursuing her and she is allowing it. This is not being controlling, but expecting your girl to respect your relationship.

    There is a reason that she is letting this continue however. That's something you should look into as well.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    7 years ago

    Most attractive women have a back-up pitcher waiting for you to screw up. LOL

    Most men I know have girlfriends that have done this to them. They talk to other men, saying they are just friends, then freak out when you talk to girls. I solve this problem by not being needy or jealous, and just start talking to every hot girl I know or meet. Rather quickly the girlfriend will confront the behavior. Just explain you trust her, and she can talk to whomever she wants... and so will you. You will be amazed at how fast this behavior goes away.

    Good luck.

  • 7 years ago

    My Dear Mr. Pickle......why? Too much "Drama" with this chick.

    New Year, New Babe....

    Happy New Year!

    Much Love,

    raisin

  • Miss T
    Lv 6
    7 years ago

    may be its a friend thing but let her know that its not cool and if she wants him then be with him don't be leading him on like there going to be together if she with you.. Ask her who she wants

  • 7 years ago

    Yeah she's bein kind of a jerk.

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