mr pickle

I posted a great photo on her fb timeline of the two of us that she really liked. It was not the first. We have been dating for 2+ years and have not swayed. We get along and always have fun. We are intimate at times so we are not new. Her fb friends know about us. I asked if she nixed her account because of my post. she said she did as she only wants to be in charge of her own timeline material. I was embarrassed and felt foolish. What is she wanting to hide?

I posted a great photo on her fb timeline of the two of us that she really liked. It was not the first. We have been dating for 2+ years and have not swayed. We get along and always have fun. We are intimate at times so we are not new. Her fb friends know about us. I asked if she nixed her account because of my post. she said she did as she only wants to be in charge of her own timeline material. I was embarrassed and felt foolish. What is she wanting to hide?

A business owner who I purchased services new I was having a financial difficult time. I should have cut their service off but was to embarrassed to do so and thinking I could eventually get caught up. Never happened and I actually did stop. They were ruthless demanding money when they new I did not have it. Now, they are suing. I am not looking to not pay but I recall something about "shared responsibility" somewhere in a similar case.

We have a 7X18' flat roof over our porch, with gutter. As normal, we would get water leaks as water would just stand and not always empty down the gutter. Had a roofing contractor redo the roof. He built it up putting more slope for the water to run off. Problem is, he dismantled the gutter and now the rain water just runs off onto the ground. And, not always at the lower end. My concern is, it will created foundation issues in the future. Was he right dismantling the gutter? Just seems a little odd.

I suppose they must have some happy members or they would not be around. But, at what level do you really get? Just seems to good to be true.

She says he is just a friend and not her type. . She also told me he is madly in love with her and waiting in the wings. I know how these "not my type" scenarios can go. It just seems she is building false hope with this guy, maybe. I do not want to come across controlling. I should bring it up, right?

Mt sister and husband paid mortgage insurance from the get-go, 13 years. So in the event one died the house would be paid off. Her husband did die last spring and when she went to the lender they told her even though they show the insurance was paid it did not transfer to new mortgage holder when the loan was packaged and sold. Is this the way it works?

A friend has a coffee shop I occasionally help with and I came up with this policy to make it clear how sharing the wealth works regarding tips sharing. When two employees work the floor they split tips down the middle. When owner and employee work together employee receives 60% of fare and it is up to the owners discretion if they give back any part of their 40% to the employee based on owners participation. Some days it is non-stop and others sporadic. AND, most of the time the owner hands back a 5'er or ten'er depending on how he fills his participation was or if said employee really performed well.. Trust me, I have never seen the employer short change anyone. And, all but 1 employee has been on the job for 3 to 6 years so something works. However a new employee has an issue. They feel they should have all the tips when working with the employer and likes it better than splitting 50/50 with other employees. Base pay is $10. With even the 60/40 split, they average $14-17hr. There was a little misunderstanding I just found out with new employee on how it works and of course she feel it is not fair. Thoughts?

I bought her a bluetooth. Best you can buy. She loves it! Now she wants to get one for her daughter but wants to shop around for a better price than what I paid. Oh, great. I feel like a sucker. I think it is under-handed a bit. How would you take that?

hard to imagine their pies are real pumpkin. What would the ingredients be?

After she bought an iphone i thought it would be a great safety feature for a bluetooth. She loves it! I suggested she might think about doing the same for her daughter. She agreed. Anyway, I asked her a few days ago if she is still thinking about purchasing a bluetooth for her daughter. She said, yes for xmas. Then she said that she wants to shop around for a better price. It was obvious she knew what I paid when she looked for one at the store. Anyway, I was thrown back a bit when she, again, wanted to shop for a better price. I took it at my expense. She would NEVER have put out the money even for a cheap one. Am I making a big deal out of it? I have kept my mouth shut.

Dating for 2 years. I stay at her house a few times per month. I have roommates so it is easier. Whenever her daughter, 22, visits she makes sure my toothbrush and whatever other evidence that I had been there is hidden. she so does not want her daughter to know she is "that" type of girl. Very religious and has evoked plenty into her daughter. She does not want her daughter to even know she drinks any alcohol of any kind. So, therefor the 3 of us have never been out to dinner together. Now her daughter is moving in for approx 5 months. There goes any stay overs (it is not just about sex) and when I move into my own place soon, she certainly will not say to her daughter, "oh, I am staying at........'s tonight". She has some problem that I do not get. Oh well, I should dump her I guess. What is your take?

A repair shop installed a new bulb for my headlamp. Now it shining off to the left and down. They said it was an ordeal getting into the headlamp on my 325i. And, they said the bulb just pops in so there should not be an issue. Any thought on why it is not lined up? Can a bulb be put in crooked? I am hesitant taking it back. Can I adjust myself? Any thoughts what could have gone wrong? thanks

Now it shines in some weird direction. I went back and was told they had to dismantle something to put bulb in and that all it took was popping a bulb in so it could not be crooked. Anyway, the light is not now correct and driving me crazy and probably other drivers coming at me. Before I go back what should I know or should I just take it to an authorized dealer? Cost $40. Or, is this something I could easily do myself?

My first wife, mother of our daughter and my second wife will be attending the wedding. There are "no" relationship issues at all. We all have been together before at family gatherings. But, my gf (of two years) expressed nervousness about going. I think she feels as if she is just "the gf", which she is, as there is not a marital commitment between us. We have been dating exclusively is all. My daughter did not know how to handle invitation to her and decided she would just send it to me as "and friend". I was nervous letting her down so I lied. I told her it was made out to both of us.I was not invited to her daughters college graduation as it were more of a family event (ex husband, relatives, etc). Is this the same? Should she not go? She would like to, but I am not so sure I want her to. I am worried this whole relationship may blow apart between us. I wish I were not so concerned. Advice?

Like, if you love your daughter. These kind of postings are a way for companies to build a profile on you. So, if you "like" this, you might "like" that. Any thoughts on this?

What are alternatives?

I asked her if any of the stories are dicey? Would she get kinda aroused, excited? She said she avoids those kind of novels that would have sexual content. I asked why and she said it is not comfortable reading for her. And, yet, we have spent the nite with each other 6 times recently and not one time did she express an interest in physical intimacy with me. Time, to move on? What kind of issue would one have? I think she is afraid of her own sexuality because when we have had sex, she loves it. .