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Trey asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 7 years ago

My friend (girl) wants space?

So I've known this girl for about half a year now and I like her and she likes me back. I never got around to asking her out because I dont want to mess up the friendship. We are well.. were.. really close. Out of the blue she said that she wants space and that the wants to not text as much and wants to tone down the friendship a but. I asked if I did anything wrong and she was like "no its fine idk why I do this but when I get too close to people I start to push them away. idk im just a selfish bi**h" So anyways, thats how it kinda went. We are both 15. So I'm just wondering what to do because I like her a lot and I care about her so much.

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    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    If you're not dating then why does she "need space". People usually don't ask for space unless they have been dating.

    It sounds like she is not ready for any kind of a relationship...friendship or otherwise. That's fine. Let her go. Move on. She needs to get her act together on her own time. There's nothing you can do about that.

    Besides...you're both 15 and just kids. Relationships and dating will happen (and should happen) much later! Enjoy being a kid and stop trying to grow up so fast. At least she recognizes her lack of maturity...which is good.

  • Kind of sounds like shes begging for attention. Give her space.. and then just don't text her again. She tells you what she does and then says shes a selfish b..? she wants attention.

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