Ex-girlfriend wants a restraining order against me?

1. Stop texting/contacting her - it's likely that your ex-gf's mother was making a threat/giving you a last chance. I'd advise you to take the threat seriously so delete her contact details from your phone, FB etc just in case you inadvertently call her.

2. A restraining order is a legal order banning you from contacting her and is not serious until you break its terms in which case you could be in more serious bother.If a RO is placed against you a prospective employer doesn't need to know about it.

3. Find a new gf.

Restraining orders aren't criminal convictions. You aren't being convicted of a crime, so they are rather easy to get.

As long as you don't ever contact this girl again, nobody will know about them. Contact her, then you'll have a problem. Outside of this restraining order being used against you the next time you stalk a young girl, it wont' be an hindrance.

Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/AKiLB

Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.

The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.

Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.

When someone breaks up with you, it means they're done with you. It doesn't give you license to harass the h3ll out of them, which sounds like exactly what you've been doing.

When they say no, they mean no. When they say stop, they mean stop. Block her number and never contact her again.

What can you do? Stop being a pain in the a** and leave them alone.

The Mom was bluffing to get you off their daughter's back. But, best not to "call" their bluff!

See a lawyer or policeman